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Amethystos
5,456 M Moving Along
PathStep 17 Compassion hearts192 Forum posts21 Forum upvotes27 Current upvotes27 Age GroupAdult Last activeApril, 2022 Member sinceFebruary 19, 2019
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On-going illness
Disability Support / by Amethystos
Last post
 January 7th, 2022
...See more I had my first surgery when I was 25 because of mid-ear infection. It was a severe one and I tried to cheer myself up thinking that they spotted it in time to cure. Doctors said I'd have slight infection every 3-4 months, I prepared myself for that. I was like they said for a year, but now it has been 3-4 months and my ear still infected.... Have been changing doctors and medicines, I'm so scared I might have to undergo another surgery. I'm so scared last night I woke up from my sleep, body shaking uncontrollably and heart racing. Diseases come after diseases and I don't know what will happen anymore....
Is being single weird :(
Relationship Stress / by Amethystos
Last post
 January 26th, 2021
...See more I think it's a bit strange to post here when I'm single but I thing it's best fitted in this community. So, I'm from an Asian country and here it's believed that the best age to get married is in the 20s. Lots of my friends gradually get married and have kids and post fb about it, even most of those who haven't married already have lover, people around me have been rushing me into finding someone and then tie the knot. It makes me feel like I'm a weird one since I feel like it's hard to think about someone in a romantic way. it's like the butterflies left my stomach or something, just blank feelings left.
Fears of growing up
Anxiety Support / by Amethystos
Last post
 February 5th, 2020
...See more Or so I think it is, I'm not even sure if I post this in the right place. It's the fear about everything I have to deal with by myself. I'm an Asian living in Asia society and I've been worrying about lots after I graduated 6 months ago. I'm worry about having a stable income, my parents' health, other's opinions about how immature I am, about getting married before 30s when I don't even have a boyfriend for ages, and about how to deal with everything when my family is not here to guide me (housing, money management, relationships, etc.) I'm worry cuz I know in Asia there'll be no one who will help you happily willingly unless you pay them...
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