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AmbrosialElysian
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Number of ratings88 Number of reviews53 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, French, Russian, Turkish Listener sinceFeb 9, 2021 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 89 People helped434 Chats1,595 Listener group chats11 Forum posts86 Forum upvotes117
Bio

☆ 20+ ☆ Agnostic ☆ Pansexual ☆


Hi! Call me Rose or Ely hehe (Not my real name). ♡


Spoken languages: Turkish (Native), English (Advanced) and Russian (Around B1-B2)!


Areas I have struggled with the most: Bullying, sexual abuse (Not assault) (aka grooming), family abuse, chronic allergies, anxiety and panic attacks, school stress, transportation stress (Survived a minor motor accident), family finance stress.


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Merhaba, Bana Gül diyebilirsiniz (Gerçek adım değil). Yetişkinim. Size yardımcı olabilmeyi çok isterim. ♡

Konuştuğum diller: Türkçe (Ana dilim), İngilizce (İleri seviye) ve Rusça öğreniyorum (Başlangıç seviyesi)! Beraber Rusça pratik yapabiliriz ♡ Aynı zamanda 7Cups'ta Türkçe Çeviri Projesi lideriyim! ^^

En çok zorluk çekmiş olduğum alanlar: Zorbalık, intihar düşünceleri, cinsel istismar (Tecavüz değil) (Benden büyük biri tarafından sanal istismar olarak özetleyebilirim), aile içi anlaşmazlıklar/şiddet, kronik alerjiler, anksiyete ve panik atak, okul stresi, ulaşım anksiyetesi (Küçük bir motor kazası atlattım), aile para sorunları.


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Привет! Я Роза (Не моё настоящее и́мя). я взрослая. Я бы очень помочь.♡ я говорю: по-турецки (Мой родной язык), по-английски (Очень хорошо) и я читаю по-русски (Новичок)! Мы можем упражнять вместе.♡

Мои самые большие трудности: тра́вля, суицидальные мысли, сексуа́льного домога́тельства (Нет изнаси́лование) (ухаживание), семейные сцены, хронические аллерги́и, тревожное расстройство (Я попал в лёгкую аварию), финансовые проблемы в семые.


Recent forum posts
Earthquake in Türkiye and Syria
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
February 7th, 2023
...See more As a Turkish person myself, I would love to help those who suffered from this tragic event. Feel free to tell victims you encounter to contact me and I will do my best.
Listener Support
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
July 7th, 2022
...See more Hey all! I post from time to time to remind you all that you can message me if you are in need for support (For grooming). Please dont shy from messaging ♡
Not Giving Up
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
June 7th, 2022
...See more So I made a kind of a sad post titled 'Before I Go'. but I dont want anyone here to think people ONLY have bad thoughts. I'm not giving up, nor should you. You all are beautiful and strong. You got this ♡
Before I Go
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
June 10th, 2022
...See more Hey everyone. I have been a listener here for so long, fought for so long. I didn't know the appropriate place to post this but here goes. Throughout my life, so many things happened. Some people are strong enough to fight them, some aren't. I won't talk about myself. But I wanna help anyone I can with whatever issue I had that did me no good. I wanna make it good at least. You can check my profile on what I struggled with. I will talk to anyone who wants to talk. Thank you.  [edited by MistyMagic 4th June 2022, messaged]
Listener Helping With Exam & Social Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
May 11th, 2022
...See more Hey everyone! I hope you are all doing great ♡ I had also suffered from anxiety. It has gotten way better now and I feel like if I can touch anyone's heart and help in any way, it would mean the world to me. 🌺🍃 For me exam anxiety looked like this: sweating, shaking (To the point I couldn't hold the pen), throwing up, not being able to eat, crying etc. And well, I had been bullied a lot, many famiy issues and relationship/friendship issues so, that's my social anxiety for ya. Waiting for your messages ♡
Signs of Grooming
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
April 15th, 2022
...See more This has been requested a lot so hopefully this helps someone ♡ If you feel like you/someone you know might be in this situation, at any age, dont be shy from messaging me. (I was groomed at 18 by a 29 year old.) - Says things like 'Everyone does it', 'You are so childish', 'You are so vanilla' etc. when they request something sexual but you dont wanna do it. - Barely knows you but showers you with affection at first, yet shortly after it seems like they only like you when you are being sexual. - ESPECIALLY if you dont have a stable career, yes adults also count, they promise you stability and other favours for no reason. Then when you dont wanna do something sexual, they will say you used them even if you didnt do anything. - They wont let you go, if you try to leave they will promise to change or never do it again just to lure you back in. - They will threaten you, and yes threatening to kill themselves also count. - When you mention how you think your relationship is wrong they will call you delusional or that you are easy to manipulate by other people. - When you try to leave they will blame your close ones, in fact they will talk sh*t about them constantly for no reason so you become isolated, aka an easy prey. - Lets say you did their request and told them this was it, they will keep on requesting and even call you weird saying 'you did it once, why not again?' Or will compare different acts and call you weird for doing one thing and refusing the other. - They will mock your boundaries. For example 'You do this but wont do this, whats your problem?' - They will be persistent about certain things. They will keep on saying you can 'try' some things even if you stated you didnt ever want to. - They will almost brag about the age difference, saying people are 'old and jealous' for judging them. Please DONT confuse this with 'they are jealous of our bond'. Pay attention to what they say. - Remember how they showered you with love, care or gifts? They will take that all back when you decide to leave. They will insult your every insecurity. But dont let them discourage you, remember they are crying cause someone half their age left them which is pathetic. (If you are a kid/teen). And if you are an adult, they cant deal with the fact that you are INDEED hard to manipulate. Show them who is the real adult here. - When you mention your trauma they will say you are overreacting, you just cant forget, you wanna stir up some drama. - They will try their best to keep this a secret. They may act like they are okay with being known at first, but soon they will talk about escaping together cause 'No one will understand'. - Last but not least, its almost always trusted ones. Just cause you trusted them, were your friend, a family member, doesnt make whatever they did disappear. - If they have a history of dating people way too younger than them, thats a red flag. - They are EXTREMELY insecure. Thats why they dont date adults in the first place. So dont be surprised if they are really jealous or even accuse you of cheating. # If you have any other signs in mind please write in the comments ♡ You can also share your story and talk with other survivors! Unfortunately I cant accept requests because of many harassers :( Please tag me in the comments for me to message you, sometimes i may not get requests ♡#
Listener Helping With Grooming - Issue
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
November 27th, 2021
...See more Hey everyone, i made posts here about grooming and said i accepted requests; However because of the amount of creepy people in my dms i wont accept them anymore. So if you still would like to talk, please summarize your experience in the comments so i might accept your request ♡
Signs of Grooming
Trauma Support / by AmbrosialElysian
Last post
January 10th, 2022
...See more This has been requested a lot so hopefully this helps someone ♡ I will post this regularly and if you feel like you/someone you know might be in this situation, at any age, dont be shy from messaging me ♡ - Says things like 'Everyone does it', 'You are so childish' , 'You are so vanilla' etc. when they request something sexual but you dont wanna do it. - Barely knows you but showers you with affection at first, yet shortly after it seems like they only like you when you are being sexual. - ESPECIALLY if you dont have a stable career, yes adults also count, they promise you stability and other favours for no reason. Then when you dont wanna do something sexual, they will say you used them even if you didnt do anything. - They wont let you go, if you try to leave they will promise to change or never do it again just to lure you back in. - They will threaten you, and yes threatening to k i l l themselves also count. - When you mention how you think your relationship is wrong they will call you delusional or that you are easy to manipulate by other people. - When you try to leave they will blame your close ones, in fact they will talk sh*t about them constantly for no reason so you become isolated, aka an easy prey. - Lets say you did their request and told them this was it, they will keep on requesting and even call you weird saying 'you did it once, why not again?' - They will mock your boundaries. For example 'You do this but wont do this, whats your problem?' - They will be persistent about certain things. They will keep on saying you can 'try' some things even if you stated you didnt ever want to. - They will almost brag about the age difference, saying people are 'old and jealous' for judging them. Please DONT confuse this with 'they are jealous of our bond'. Pay attention to what they say. - Remember how they showered you with love, care or gifts? They will take that all back when you decide to leave. They will insult your every insecurity. But dont let them discourage you, remember they are crying cause someone half their age left them which is pathetic. (If you are a kid/teen). And if you are an adult, they cant deal with the fact that you are INDEED hard to manipulate. Show them who is the real adult here. - When you mention your trauma they will say you are overreacting, you just cant forget, you wanna stir up some drama. - They will try their best to keep this a secret. They may act like they are okay with being known at first, but soon they will talk about escaping together cause 'No one will understand'. - Last but not least, its almost always trusted ones. Just cause you trusted them, were your friend, a family member, doesnt make whatever they did disappear. # If you have any other signs in mind please write in the comments ♡ You can also share your story and talk with other survivors ^-^ Please tag me in the comments for me to message you, sometimes i may not get requests ♡#
Feedback & Reviews
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