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AgentGray003
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HI, I am a chunky monkey from funky town :)  Seriously, I am a married lady who works outside the home. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and I love to laugh.  I try to enjoy each day of my life. I like to fish, surf the internet, and play mindless computer games.  I am dealing with childhood traumas to try and understand how they shaped me into me.  Oh and I survived a natural disaster as well.  Like I didn't have enough PTSD before that ;)  LOL


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help me with the why
50 & Over Community / by AgentGray003
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 July 2nd, 2023
...See more My husband had an internet long distance affair many years ago. While I have tried to move past it, I just can't wrap my head around the why. He had always said I was the best person in his life, the only one who loved and supported him. But yet, when I was grieving the loss of my mother, he decided to start a relationship on line. The hard part is that he told someone intimate words like I love you to someone other than me. I take my marriage vows seriously and this felt like total betrayal. We are good now. My husband does acknowledge this is his biggest regret of his life, but I still don't understand why. Why did it happen in the first place? Can anyone shed light on this? Any ideas, comments, or opinions? AG
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Help with the 'why'
Friendship Support / by AgentGray003
Last post
 May 18th, 2023
...See more My husband had an internet long distance affair many years ago. While I have tried to move past it, I just can't wrap my head around the why. He had always said I was the best person in his life, the only one who loved and supported him. But yet, when I was grieving the loss of my mother, he decided to start a relationship on line. The hard part is that he told someone intimate words like I love you to someone other than me. I take my marriage vows seriously and this felt like total betrayal. We are good now. My husband does acknowledge this is his biggest regret of his life, but I still don't understand why. Why did it happen in the first place? Can anyone shed light on this? Any ideas, comments, or opinions? AG
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Hello from the other side
50 & Over Community / by AgentGray003
Last post
 June 6th, 2023
...See more HI, I am over 50 😝 with a good sense of humor (or I'd like to think so) and I love to laugh. I have gray hair, hence the name. I'm a chunky monkey from funky town (80's music rules!). I will be celebrating 39 years with the same spouse this year. We have had more ups than downs, so I guess that is good. I have an empty nest with an adult kid who has turned out rather good overall. I am pretty laid back and work as a medical auditor/coder. I like it when my humor catches people off guard as I have a fairly serious complicated job. I hope to make friends and have people to talk to and I am a good listener too. TTYL, AG
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Tired in my Soul
Mindfulness Center / by AgentGray003
Last post
 May 12th, 2023
...See more I am so tired in my soul. With all the news of the world drilling down to my own being, I am drained. Anyone else feel like this? AG
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