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Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist
by Tazzie
Last post
 April 7th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?d17cde0a21c5d3b86fca178bd4197012]. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. 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LGBTQ+ Chatroom Weekly Discussions - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
 February 12th
...See more hello everyone :) this thread will be used by the community's leader(s) to share the week's upcoming discussions! subscribe to be one of the first to know about each week's discussions!
LGBTQ+ Chatroom Feedback - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
 June 1st, 2023
...See more hello hello everyone! today we're here to share some feedback from people participating in our chatroom discussions :) feedback for @Rubylistens22: warm and welcoming host, not too many questions/not too long feedback for @EmotionsListener: I didn't know the word 'gatekeeping' before, but I knew of its devastating effects on the LGBTQ+ community, how it separates us instead of uniting us. It was good to talk about what labels are meant to be for, not what they are often used for currently. feedback for @KateDoskocilova: Kind host, cool questions, informative and thoughtful  feedback for @Jefferythebunny319: We got a bunch of cookies and I also learned a lot thank you all for the wonderful feedback and for supporting the effort the team puts in holding events and discussions! wanna join the room? click here [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mGlmdHydmeJO45maWVqV]! wanna keep up with the schedule of discussions? click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/CommunityCulture_2541/LGBTQChatroomWeeklyDiscussionsMasterpost_305197/]!
Confused
by rationalPerson4881
Last post
 27 minutes ago
...See more Not sure this is the right spot to put this.  But if it is not.  Please someone feel free to delete it or move it to the right place. I am a male in my 30's but for the past few years I have been going through something on which I have been wanting to wear woman's clothing and experience what it would be like to be a woman.  Recently I have started looking at dresses and bras and things like that at Walmart and other stores to think about what type of outfit I would put on if I were to wear womans clothing.  However most of the time in the past it has not been that much of an issue as this feeling only comes here and there but in the past month and a half it has become a more stronger urge to wear womans clothing. I live with my parents for health reasons.  My mom is supportive of anything.  I have a niece who lives with us due to my sister passing a way a couple of years back came out a year or so ago as being bisexual.  Me I wanna to tell my mom I wanna to wear woman's clothing only at home never out.  But am afraid on how she will respond. I am not attracted to men.  I am still attracted to woman.  I am just confused.  Could this mean I have gender dysphoria?  Anyone else experience anything like this?  Thanks you 
HAPPY PRODE MONTH EVERYONE
by RUMBUM
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!!! REMEMBER TO BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE AND REMEMBER YOU CANNOT CHANGE NO MATTER WHAT! IF YOU ARE A TRANS MAN YOU ARE A MAN! IF YOU ARE A TRANS WOMAN YOU ARE A WOMAN! IF YOU ARE NONBINARY PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT YOU! AND IF YOU ARE AGENDER YOU ARE A GENDERLESS BEING! BE YOU BE PROUD!!!!!!!!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️
Hi everyone
by brokenartlostmind
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more It's nice to meet you! My name is Rain, I'm non-binary and panromantic (also probably asexual) creature 🐸 I'd be glad to meet some queer people to talk to, I've been feeling quite lonely and misunderstood (like I'm mostly surrounded by cisgender and straight people my whole life)... There's so few people I've made my coming out so far, only my two sisters and some friends. But most of them still misgendering me or calling me by my old name... Also I still haven't the guts to tell my parents, they can be open minded on some things but what I'm afraid of is judgement like they could say things like "what is that again" "it's just a phase" ... But I hate my birth name so much, and I'd like to be seen as I truly am... But idk, do you have maybe any tips?
✨✨HAPPY PRIDE MONTH✨✨
by NoahAnimates
Last post
 23 hours ago
...See more WELCOME TO THE GAY CONNER!! its the first day of June 2024!! I just wanted to ask all my ally's and all my Lgbtqia+ and MORGI people weather your  Lesbian- I wanna hear your story! gay-I wanna hear your story!  Bisexual-I wanna hear your story! Transgender-I wanna hear your story! Queer-I wanna hear your story!  Intersex-I wanna hear your story!  Asexual-I wanna hear your story!  and more I want to hear your story all of them and if you want to know your story know you are loved by me and all of us I personally am a Transgender man (Female to Male) and I am 16 and came out (somewhat) at 12 but I officially came out at 15 so share your story with me or share your art for pride month! I love you so much  you trans friend Noah
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜
by Hekatemoon
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more
Did somebody say....Pride Month?
by xIAmAlwaysHereForYoux
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more      Welcome everyone! It's officially the first day of Pride Month! Shoutout to all the people of the LGBTQ+ community and all of the supporters! Since it's the first day of this wonderful month of fun and festivities, I would love to share more about this prideful (no pun intended) month!      Pride Month evolved with the Stonewall riots which were ongoing riots for gay liberation that took place for several days starting on June 28, 1969. The riots occurred during a police raid at the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar located near Lower Manhattan in New York City. Wonderful activists, Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Stromé DeLarerie are all believed to have incited the riots, however, Johnson disputes her involvement. A year after the riots, the first pride marches were celebrated in several US cities.       Thanks to the great activists who stood up and used their voices and freedom, we can all come together, share, and celebrate this wonderful month. I know and understand, that people in the LGBTQ+ community, including myself, face lots of hate and discrimination. Unfortunately, some people are blindsided and don't understand or get our community. However, we must stand tall and speak up when something is wrong or when we hear hate and discrimination. We must be the change. We must remain strong during hateful moments. We must share who we are, with people who love and support us. Most importantly, we must be happy with who we are, who we always knew we were, and must express that to others. 
genderfluid kid
by idk2000
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more i want to meet other genderfluid people to talk about each others experiences but i dont know anyone else who is genderfluid and ive never met anyone and im just kinda lost :') please helppp. if anyone wants to talk about anything though feel free to post on this thread too 
Intro
by BerryMeInRoses
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hi I’m Ray. I’m bisexual and gender-fluid. My gender changes based on the baremetric pressure. Who knows why! My pronouns are he/they/fae.
gender questioning and push and pull.
by max145
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more I am questioning my gender and I am in the closet to most people i am in my 40s and because of money and throughout my life, I have fallen through the cracks growing up i am with some unsurprising family members untell I can afford to move out.  I figured out in the last year or 2 I am bi and now on to my gender i grew up until recently believing I was cisgender. yes i  my points are growing that i was more gnc and all . the thing is there was enough of me that clicked with being male that I could get by but not thrive as one but I did not know much about other options related to gender so i just when with male because it felt close enough.  But now i know more and that there is a part of me that likes to be seen and treated like a female and in recent months there has been this push and push inside me going on. also, i have to deal with the pain of me not feeling like i fit in with other guys and now i realize is that i feel like a fraud sometimes.   not to mention sometimes i think my life would have been easier if i was born a irl at least for me. i could be more of my true self with less pushback from the world. I know that gender can be on a spectrum and all and there are femine males  but good luck making this work. also it is not just somtmes gender expression its some of the things other females get to experience I really enjoy I will never get to experience as long as the world sees me as a male and not a female that part of me wants to be.
Hi :3
by karlacade
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Hi everyone, I'm new here. I'm Karla, a 31-year-old demigirl lesbian, she/they. I'm currently engaged to a wonderful, wonderful trans lady, who I love more than anything else in the world. And, of course, since I'm here, I also have my own little laundry list of mental health issues. I love video games; my favorites are Pokemon and Dead by Daylight, though of course there are many many others as well. I'm also in university, majoring in Japanese, and that's pretty fun. Okay, that's all, I look forward to hopefully meeting people! Also, I hope everyone has at least a decent day. :3
Dysphoria tips?
by communicativeApple9560
Last post
 Thursday
...See more I'm ftm and I'm dying because of dysphoria, mainly because of bottom dysphoria right now. I just don't feel enough and I'm afraid that I'm no longer sexually attractive to the person I'm currently dating. That's not even entirely unlikely because my ex once said that to me. Does anyone have any tips against that feeling?
Introduction
by grapefruit619
Last post
 Thursday
...See more Hi. I'm new to 7 cups. I'm just looking for someone who can understand what I'm going through because I feel really alone. I've struggled with severe anxiety and some depression for years. I was prescribed medication and it has helped with general stuff like social anxiety, but recently nothing has helped. I'm bisexual. I came out about 3 years ago when I was a sophomore in highschool. A bit over a year ago I fell in love with this girl - my bestfriend actually. She's bi too, but she's Tamil and so there is no world in which she can be with a girl. It wouldn't matter anyway because she clearly doesn't feel the same way about me. And it took a while but I came to accept that she didn't have feelings for me and we couldn't be together. But even as a friend, it's obvious she doesn't care about me as much as I care about her. She will deny it but I know its true. My biggest fear is her leaving, moving on and leaving me behind. I dont know why I have such a big fear of abandonment but I do. My anxiety makes me very paranoid. I tend to overthink everything she says and does. She thinks I'm crazy, and I know some of it is in my head, but I also know what is real. I just need someone to tell me I'm not crazy.

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

Please note: bolded grey text is hyperlinked.

Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Leaders
Group Support Mentor / Teen Star
@EmotionsListener
Chatroom Moderator
@EmotionsListener
Room Supporter
@azuladragon34
On Self-Care Break
@Bunnylovesyou
Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet