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Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist
by Tazzie
Last post
 April 7th
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?d17cde0a21c5d3b86fca178bd4197012]. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. 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LGBTQ+ Chatroom Weekly Discussions - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
 February 12th
...See more hello everyone :) this thread will be used by the community's leader(s) to share the week's upcoming discussions! subscribe to be one of the first to know about each week's discussions!
LGBTQ+ Chatroom Feedback - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
 June 1st, 2023
...See more hello hello everyone! today we're here to share some feedback from people participating in our chatroom discussions :) feedback for @Rubylistens22: warm and welcoming host, not too many questions/not too long feedback for @EmotionsListener: I didn't know the word 'gatekeeping' before, but I knew of its devastating effects on the LGBTQ+ community, how it separates us instead of uniting us. It was good to talk about what labels are meant to be for, not what they are often used for currently. feedback for @KateDoskocilova: Kind host, cool questions, informative and thoughtful  feedback for @Jefferythebunny319: We got a bunch of cookies and I also learned a lot thank you all for the wonderful feedback and for supporting the effort the team puts in holding events and discussions! wanna join the room? click here [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mGlmdHydmeJO45maWVqV]! wanna keep up with the schedule of discussions? click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/CommunityCulture_2541/LGBTQChatroomWeeklyDiscussionsMasterpost_305197/]!
LGBTQ Forever
by SherweetSherif97
Last post
 4 hours ago
...See more We have to be visible. We shouldn't be ashamed of who we are.
Last one to post in this thread wins!!!
by AlexFox800
Last post
 5 hours ago
...See more You see the title. Anything goes in the comments, just try to be the last one standing!
Just venting
by KranialAktivity
Last post
 9 hours ago
...See more Hi, I'm currently in a relationship. Going on 8yrs actually, and I love my partner. Lately I've been feeling very down because she would like to have children, and I being a woman myself cannot help her achieve that. Makes me feel *** and useless. 
Where are enby’s? - lil rant story
by Marz222
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hi guys I’m a non binary kid who has come out a little while ago and I’m look for some other non binary ppl that I could talk to or hear stories from. So I came out as non binary to my family maybe a month or more ago. My dad was the only one who wasn’t accepting. He thinks it’s a faze but anyways I’ll move on. Ive been feeling a lot of dysphoria, especially about my chest and I’ve never met anyone else who was non binary so I don’t really have anyone to teach me and look up too. So I’m calling on all enby people, young and old, who have stories, tips, or just want to chat with others like them.  So what ever you are feeling right now, feel free to reply and have a great day. Sending warm regards to all of you they friends :> -Marz
by admirableBlanket326
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more Hello, I am mike and I am new to 7 cups
Am I a bad Christian?
by RUMBUM
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more I am a 13-year-old transgender man who is also bisexual. I have been going to a catholic school since I was a toddler. I knew I was young since I was gay since I was a little kid and just recently found out I was trans. I have been faced with a lot of homophobia since I was little but always ignored it until recently. I have been told that being gay is a sin. That being trans will put me to *** and a bunch of other religious homophobic and transphobic stuff. Because of the stuff people tell me I have grown a slight hatred to the Christian religion. But I also don't want to go to ***. I have tried praying to God to be straight and cis but nothing works so can someone tell me if I'm being a bad person or not?
Realizing I'm (36f) gay and in a long term relationship/marriage with a man
by Stepeoples
Last post
 Monday
...See more I've known I am (at least) bi my whole life. However, I've recently realized that I am a lesbian. I've been with my husband for most of my adult life and I'm finally admitting I'm not sexually attracted to him. I love him and we have built a wonderful life together but it's because I've repressed my sexuality and desire. Now I'm processing and trying to figure out how to move forward in my life.
hello!!!
by sweetrosemary
Last post
 Monday
...See more hello all!!! i'm bisexual and transmasc(still figuring out which masc gender) it's nice to meet you all :)
Good gay news
by AvyIsKing
Last post
 Monday
...See more Often times on this forum we don't see very much good gay news, or even in general, so I thought maybe I should spread some positivity. No one is required to post or reply, I just hope this can bring some joy into someone's life.  So I (16, trans ftm/genderfluid) and my sister (14 Cis fem) have grown up in an unsupportive house. I Have always encouraged my sister to love herself and be herself. I know what it's like to want to live your best gay life, and I came out as bi at 13 and I was grounded for 3 months. And I wasn't allowed to see my friend (f). Well she came out. And she is living her best gay life. She is so happy and supported and my mom accepts her, and I'm really just so proud of her. I wanted to share her success story. Her and her best friend both have massive crushes on each other and their relationship is so cute to me, and I'm just genuinely so happy and proud of her.  All I want is for her to feel loved and safe enough to say these things, and she does. She doesn't hate herself for her, she loves who she is.  So yeah thats it 😅😅
Hi
by KranialAktivity92
Last post
 Monday
...See more Hi, I'm new on here. I identify as masc les. What about you guys?
How do I find someone to talk to about all this? Confused.
by confusedsubmark
Last post
 April 27th
...See more I was born male and still am but I've been so confused lately. This has happened to me in the past but I've never had anyone to talk to about it. How do I find someone to talk to? I know this is a community forum. But I just want something private. Someone who I can talk to regularly and share what's on my mind. 
Voice dysphoria and meeting new ppl
by communicativeApple9560
Last post
 April 27th
...See more Hello. I met someone online and we really like eachother. It's abt to lean into dating. She knows that I am trans ftm and pre t . So that means I still got a feminine voice. And I feel reallyyyy uncomfortable with that. But since it goes into dating I feel like it would be recommended to talk to her on the phone or just showing what my voice sounds like. I really want to do that. But as i said , I feel so uncomfortable and dysphoric with showing ppl my voice. (Also because i think she would see me then more feminine which I don't want). Has anyone experience with that and has advice for me I'd reallyy appreciate it : )

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

Please note: bolded grey text is hyperlinked.

Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Read the 7 Cups Guidelines
Community Leaders
Group Support Mentor / Teen Star
@EmotionsListener
Chatroom Moderator
@CaringSub
@EmotionsListener
Room Supporter
@azuladragon34
On Self-Care Break
@Bunnylovesyou
Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet