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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
Weekly Prompt #37: This is your Worry Jar
by ASilentObserver
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  Last week, we discussed: How has anxiety affected your overall sense of self-worth or confidence? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt36Howhasanxietyaffectedyouroverallsenseofselfworthorconfidence_328249/]  Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable too. If anyone hasn't shared yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt36Howhasanxietyaffectedyouroverallsenseofselfworthorconfidence_328249/] and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt: Add your worry to this Worry Jar!  Here's how:  Whenever an anxious thought pops up, write it and share it here with us. This thread will act as a jar. At the end of the week/month, take a look at the worries. Do they seem as scary anymore? Share with us  I am looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! Note:  I invite all to help me with creating these weekly prompt discussions so that we all can come together and discuss something related to anxiety every week. If you any interested in helping me out, please share your interest through this form and  I will reach out to you to guide and support you in creating the next discussion.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefjDBwy85YFxWpfrqrdXbdMORBC-pvJA4xhd10R9lMq66fIw/viewform] Join us in the Anxiety Support Chat every Monday and Tuesday! [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]. -------------------------
How to Calm an Anxiety Attack: Practical Tips and Techniques 🙏
by Jem7Cups
Last post
Thursday
...See more Anxiety attacks can be incredibly overwhelming. They are characterised by a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort, and can be accompanied by physical symptoms like a racing heart, shortness of breath, and trembling. Although they can feel incredibly isolating, it's important to remember that you're not alone, and there are techniques that can help. Here's a guide to calming an anxiety attack: 1. Grounding Techniques: Grounding helps bring you back to the present moment. Here are some techniques to try: - 5-4-3-2-1: Identify five things you can see, four you can touch, three you can hear, two you can smell, and one you can taste. - Hold an object: Focus on its texture, temperature, weight, and other physical qualities. 2. Deep Breathing: This can help slow your heart rate and calm your mind. Try inhaling for a count of four, holding for a count of four, and exhaling for a count of four. 3. Challenge Negative Thoughts: Anxiety often comes with a rush of negative and irrational thoughts. Challenge them by asking: - Is this thought true? - Is there evidence to support it? - What's the worst that could happen? And what's more likely to happen? 4. Remind Yourself: Tell yourself that this is an anxiety attack and it will pass. You've gotten through them before and you will get through this one as well. 5. Find a Calm Environment: If possible, step away from an overwhelming environment. This could be a quiet room or even just a few moments outdoors. 6. Use Distraction Techniques: Engage in an activity that requires your attention. This can be anything from counting backwards, coloring, or focusing on a simple task. 7. Seek Comfort: Talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling. Sometimes, just vocalising your feelings can be therapeutic. 8. Avoid Caffeine and Sugar: These can exacerbate anxiety. Instead, drink water or herbal tea. 9. Use Positive Affirmations: Say positive affirmations to yourself, such as "I am safe," "This too shall pass," or "I am in control." 10. Seek Professional Help: If you're experiencing frequent anxiety attacks, it might be time to seek help from a professional, such as a therapist or counsellor. They can provide coping mechanisms tailored to you. Remember, everyone is different and some techniques might work better for you than others. It's about finding what's most effective for you. Most importantly, be gentle with yourself. Anxiety attacks can be challenging, but with the right tools and support, they can become more manageable.
Anxiety Level
by Sheena39
Last post
42 minutes ago
...See more How are you feeling right now?
Weekly Prompt #35: What type of anxiety do you struggle with?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
3 hours ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago we discussed: How do you conquer fear and the "All-Eyes-On-Me" feeling? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt34HowdoyouconquerfearandtheAllEyesOnMefeeling_326784/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable too. If anyone hasn't shared yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt34HowdoyouconquerfearandtheAllEyesOnMefeeling_326784/] and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. Thank you to @JollyRacher for suggesting the topic of different types of anxiety or panic attacks one experiences and that is what I look forward to discussing and hearing you all in this discussion.  Anxiety can come in different forms, shapes, and intensity for everyone. The type of anxiety you struggle with is a deeply personal experience that can have a significant impact on your daily life. This week's prompt: What type of anxiety do you struggle with? So, let's discuss and share different types of anxiety or panic attacks you experiencing and if there are any first steps you taking, even when it's scary. I am looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! Note:  I invite all to help me with creating these weekly prompt discussions so that we all can come together and discuss something related to anxiety every week. If you any interested in helping me out, please share your interest through this form and  I will reach out to you to guide and support you in creating the next discussion.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefjDBwy85YFxWpfrqrdXbdMORBC-pvJA4xhd10R9lMq66fIw/viewform] Join us in the Anxiety Support Chat every Monday and Tuesday! [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] -------------------------
Anxiety and relationship stress
by reservedWest6498
Last post
7 hours ago
...See more I don’t really know what to say I had my first anxiety attack back in February and since then it’s gotten much much worse I’m a teen and life is hard my dad is gone for the next 8 months and my mom has her own mental health problems so taking care of my younger sisters as the oldest is hard sometimes. I do online school and I have a job and that goes well I get good grades I make okay money and everything works out. I’ve know my girlfriend for almost 3 years we  both lived in Utah then moved to the exact same city again it was like meant to be and almost 7 months ago I asked her out it was a case of she fell first and he fell harder and it’s been great but it’s both of ours first real relationship so things are sometimes difficult. I try my hardest to make sure she’s happy. I write letters buy flowers reassure her spend time with her everything I can think of but sometimes it’s not reciprocated. I write a 4 pager letter to her and I’m lucky if I get a 2 paragraph text message and it’s hard when you feel lile your not being appreciated for what you do and we talk alot we make sure we communicate but over time I’ve become very insecure because of the lack of effort and it’s hard and that’s what started to spin out my anxiety there are times when I ask her to text me when she gets to work and just won’t text me or she stopped wearing her necklace I got her that she wore for 3 months straight or when we’re out together she prefers to talk with everyone else and I feel excluded. And the truth is she’s a great girlfriend I just it’s hard I’ve talked to her about all of this and it’s gotten a bit better. I also understand she’s not a very emotional person and that’s Jsut how things are for her so things that matter to me don’t matter as much to her. And I’ve become so insecure and that makes me anxious I’m anxious to go out because I’m scared to be left out. I don’t know if it’s exactly anxiety but I’m not really sad I Jsut feel like I don’t do enough and like when she doesn’t talk to me the whole time when we’re out I start to breathe heavy and I can’t stop moving and I have to leave because I can’t breathe and I need to break down. And every night these past 5 days has been like this I feel like the worst boyfriend ever because I have to leave whatever activity we’re at so I don’t break down in front of everyone and I talk to her about everything and it’s alot for her and it’s getting to the point where we talked tonight and she said she thought about everything and she wants to be with me and she loves me but maybe a break would be good but she also thinks that maybe it wouldn’t. I love this girl more than anything and I can’t lose her to my anxiety and insecurity’s. There’s alot going on with family too and I’m sorry this post is so long but it’s Jsut alot I can’t breathe I throw up I feel awful and I Jsut cry and cry and I need to get over this if anyone has any ideas or can message me I would really appreciate it thank you all 
Job Anxiety
by Olive1Q82
Last post
7 hours ago
...See more What are ways in which a young supervisor and an older person may have difficulty communicating? Is it possible that someone truly doesn’t see that they’re being rude and condescending? This is the situation I find myself in. Sometimes it’s challenging to see the other (younger) person’s perspective especially when you’ve been working two decades already. I bring it up because it causes me frustration, anxiety, and often anger. So, I just wonder (honestly) is it possible that someone really doesn’t see that what they say are rude and offensive. Can someone be rude yet well-intentioned? Is there such a significant communication gap between twenty something’s and forty something’s. I really am trying to understand. 😊 I’m trying to determine also if I am being too sensitive. Should I see this as a growth opportunity and stay or listen to my gut and find something better suited to my personality….⁉️ She causes me a significant source of anxiety. 😆 If it wasn’t for her, I’d love my job. So, what do you do when one person is holding you back from a career you’d love. i know this is something many people face…not just me.
Anxiety Check-in (●'◡'●)
by daydreammemories
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more Hello amazing people 😇 Let's have a check-in. How have you all been doing? 💚You can answer any of the following questions, or simply say hi. Any question on anxiety is welcome as well. Let's share our thoughts and support each other!  🌟1. How has your day or week been so far?  🌟2. How much is anxiety affecting your life these days?  🌟3. How are you currently taking your anxiety under control? and what benefits there is to take our anxiety under control? Let's start with these simple questions, looking forward to hearing from you!  ice breaker: What's your favorite movie title? 🎥
Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
domestic violence
by sunflow
Last post
12 hours ago
...See more Hello everyone. I really need support from someone right now. Please. If there were someone out there. I just need someone to talk to. My house is a living hell honestly. I dont feel safe in here. Got nowhere to go. Ive struggled with anxiety and depression for a long time now, but since last year Ive gotten worse. The Pandemic made me isolate more than ever. I dont feel like I have friends anymore. And my family is toxic. I love them, but from afar. Emotional abuse is constant in this environment and I feel suffocated and very badly mistreated, to the point where panic attacks are now part of my daily basis. I just feel like I would feel a little better If I could find someone to talk to. Thank you.
Overthinking
by KranialAktivity
Last post
14 hours ago
...See more Hi I'm new on here. I suffer from chronic anxiety disorder, overthinking, chronic stress, & poor sleep. I feel so alone even in a room full of people. I'm always in my head,  in my thoughts, negative thoughts come and I try to cast them out by staying as positive as I can. Its so hard to fake being okay
Grayson, Anxiety, and My Boyfriend
by DaniAleah156
Last post
16 hours ago
...See more I think im doing okay. I've just been nauseated for a few weeks now because of my anxiety. My cat just died and whenever i think about him i just become sick. Im also being forced to play the piano and trying to learn new songs also makes me nauseous. My online boyfriend helps me feel calm when im with him but i feel sick again once im alone. He doesnt care too much about my cat though...and he repeatedly talks about how much he loves his dog and it sometimes reminds me of my cat.
social anxiety
by tealPapaya5453
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I'm struggling with social anxiety, i don't know what to do, my friend said i should tell my parents but when i try to, i get too anxious and i end up not telling them. any advice on what to do? (btw im 15 in the uk)
Weekly Prompt #37: This is your Worry Jar
by ASilentObserver
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  Last week, we discussed: How has anxiety affected your overall sense of self-worth or confidence? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt36Howhasanxietyaffectedyouroverallsenseofselfworthorconfidence_328249/]  Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable too. If anyone hasn't shared yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt36Howhasanxietyaffectedyouroverallsenseofselfworthorconfidence_328249/] and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt: Add your worry to this Worry Jar!  Here's how:  Whenever an anxious thought pops up, write it and share it here with us. This thread will act as a jar. At the end of the week/month, take a look at the worries. Do they seem as scary anymore? Share with us  I am looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! Note:  I invite all to help me with creating these weekly prompt discussions so that we all can come together and discuss something related to anxiety every week. If you any interested in helping me out, please share your interest through this form and  I will reach out to you to guide and support you in creating the next discussion.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefjDBwy85YFxWpfrqrdXbdMORBC-pvJA4xhd10R9lMq66fIw/viewform] Join us in the Anxiety Support Chat every Monday and Tuesday! [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]. -------------------------
Anyone "cured"?
by skyemaidstone
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I'd be curious to hear from anyone who feels they are pretty much cured from anxiety disorders now and how they did it? I've got close to having a pretty much "normal" like with cbt, mindfulness, meditation, lifestyle improvements etc but then a life event (bereavement etc) or returning to bad habits puts me right back in the same stupid thought traps. Not sure anyone who cured would even be reading this since they are probably living their life but you never know...😀

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