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I was raised with the Bible in high regards.

Religion & Spirituality / by tryingtosurvive2024

5 minutes ago

...See more I was raised with the Bible in high regards. That means my Christian views are controlled by my understanding from scripture. To me the Bible is how I tell if something is really Godly or not. Back in 2020, I was told about the law of attraction. Not knowing what it was, I had to watch a video about it. Then I had to watch some more videos about it. Something didn't feel right, and it didn't take long to find other people that didn't like it either. In fact I found testimonies of those that had a bad experience with it. They said, that while it did work, and brought good things into their lives, it also put them in bondage to it. They said you had to keep a positive mindset at all times, and eventually that gets exhausting. After watching some of that stuff, and learning how New Age practices have been in some of the of Churches. I got tired of listening to those podcasts and moved on. As far as I know all Christians believe in the supernatural. But we vary in how far we take those beliefs. When one taps into the supernatural, you can get either God through the Holy Spirit, or you can get Demons acting like they are angels of light. That is why it is so important to use the Bible as a way to test things out. When someone from work felt like she was called to missions, I began to feel uneasy about it. I felt uneasy in several different ways, and I'm not sure if I can list all the different ways I felt uneasy. For starters how did she receive a message from God to tell her that missions is something He wants her to do? How come I don't hear God better than I do? All I get is uneasy feelings when something doesn't seem right to me. I researched the organization the she went with. Right away I started finding complaints of spiritual abuse. This caused me to dig and dig and dig. I listened to as many podcasts on the subject as I had time for. I read as many articles as I had time to print. The picture I started to get was an odd organization that has no central office. Yet it is one of the largest missions groups in the world. Some people feel that they get closer to God in it, while others have a bad experience and suffer spiritual abuse. Some people even leave Christianity altogether. How can one organization designed to share Jesus with the world, cause such a polar effect on the people involved? I bought a book by the person who created the organization. He had some curious ways to figuring out what God wants the students to do. This lead me to some more books, that examine some of the methods in comparison to scripture. As it turns out He's combining some New Age like practices with Christianity. There is a connection between this organization and something called NAR. It stands for: New Apostolic Reformation, and it has influenced almost every Church. The practices of NAR has really stretched my belief system, because I was always content with my views on the supernatural. I prayed for what I needed and other people as well. When other Christians could do something extra special, I figured it is possible because one can not limit God. But now I see that it is possible that some of these Christian people might not be tapping into God's power like they think they are. What happens when good things happen but you can't compare it to scripture without twisting or stretching things? Another thing I find so interesting about this journey of research is how, that the very thing I found over 4 years ago, has brought me full circle back to it again. I made a new friend on 7cups. She asked me to tag her. God Bless you my friend! And I hope you have a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year! @Tinywhisper11 The same goes for everyone that continues to read my stuff. 😊

Weekly sharing of Goals! Week #51 2024 (Monday 12/16/24 - Sunday 12/22/24)

Motivation & Accountability / by IsayUncle

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Day 13: People Who Made My Year Special

7 Cups Online Therapy / by SoulfullyAButterfly

9 minutes ago

...See more As the year comes to a close, it's natural to look back on the moments that shaped us. While achievements, challenges, and milestones often stand out, it's the people around us who truly leave a lasting impact. Whether they offered a listening ear, a kind word, or simply their presence, these individuals have made the year brighter and more meaningful. Celebrating the Special People in Our Lives Sometimes, it’s the little things - like a friend who sent an encouraging text when you needed it most or a colleague who made workdays more enjoyable, that can transform an ordinary moment into something extraordinary. Other times, it might be a mentor who guided you through a difficult decision or a family member who supported you unconditionally. These connections remind us that life isn’t just about what we do but also about the relationships we build. They’re a source of strength, joy, and growth, teaching us that we’re never truly alone. Practicing Gratitude for These Connections The end of the year is a wonderful opportunity to express gratitude for the people who’ve made a difference in our lives. A simple “thank you” or thoughtful gesture can go a long way in showing your appreciation. Whether it’s writing a heartfelt note, giving them a call, or even sharing a memory with them, acknowledging their impact can strengthen these bonds and make both of you feel valued. Reflect and Celebrate Together Let’s take a moment to celebrate these connections together. Share your stories about the people who’ve made your year special, no matter how big or small their impact was. Let this post be a space for gratitude, love, and recognition for those who’ve touched our lives. These people can be on 7 Cups and/or in other life areas. Reflective Questions * Who are three people who made your year special, and how did they impact your life? * What’s one moment with someone that made you feel deeply grateful this year? * How can you show appreciation to those who’ve supported or inspired you this year? * Reflecting on these relationships, what lessons have you learned about connection, kindness, or gratitude? Feel free to share your thoughts and stories in the comments below. Let’s end the year by celebrating the people who remind us of the beauty in connection and community. This post is part of the 25 Days of Gratitude, Self-Care, and Personal Growth event at 7 Cups! Learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/Day125DaysofGratitudeSelfCareandPersonalGrowthfor2024_341520/]

Day 16: Embracing Change: Lessons from the Past Year

7 Cups Online Therapy / by SoulfullyAButterfly

9 minutes ago

...See more As the year draws to a close, it’s a perfect time to reflect on how change has shaped us. While it can be uncomfortable, even difficult, change often brings with it valuable lessons and a chance to grow in ways we never imagined. Lessons from Change Change teaches us resilience, flexibility, and the importance of letting go of what no longer serves us. It encourages us to embrace uncertainty and trust that even the most difficult transitions can lead to something meaningful. Whether it’s starting a new chapter, saying goodbye to an old one, or simply adjusting to the ebb and flow of life, every shift carries an opportunity for reflection and learning. Sometimes, change forces us to confront fears or step outside our comfort zones. Other times, it gently nudges us toward something new and fulfilling. Either way, it’s through these moments that we grow stronger, wiser, and more self-aware. Celebrating Growth As we reflect on the year, let’s take a moment to acknowledge the changes we’ve experienced and the strength it took to navigate them. Whether you faced big life events or subtle shifts in perspective, every step counts. Celebrate how far you’ve come and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. Reflective Questions * What was the most significant change you experienced this year, and how did it impact you? * What lessons did you learn about yourself while navigating this change? * Was there a moment of growth that surprised you? * Is there a change you’ve been resisting that might be worth embracing in the year ahead? Feel free to share your reflections in the comments. Let’s support each other as we celebrate the courage it takes to embrace change and the growth it brings. Together, we can honor the lessons of the past year and step into the new one with confidence and hope. This post is part of the 25 Days of Gratitude, Self-Care, and Personal Growth event at 7 Cups! Learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/Day125DaysofGratitudeSelfCareandPersonalGrowthfor2024_341520/]

Nagging feeling in the heart

Depression Support / by Mesha1230

14 minutes ago

...See more Hello, Im M, i’m a 19 year old closeted homesexual who lives in a strict middle eastern country It started 10 days ago. I hanged with someone I know from uni in a VC app to study for a final. And suddenly after I finished the call I started feeling depressive (A nagging feeling in my heart, im hungry but don't eat, I feel like crying and I do usually before sleeping, I stopped eating even though I feel hungry it’s like im to depressed to eat, I have 0 passion to stuff I liked before like video games) and the nagging thing in my heart is 24/7 since I finished that call. It was in the finals season so I thought it was the finals causing this but I finished 3 days ago and im still feeling like this. So I went to the original source which was the call. It all started after finishing the call. So I thought maybe im catching feeling for this guy? Even though I know it’s impossible cause it’s a homophobic country and I can’t do anything (Im also a Practicing muslim, I don’t act on my gay feeling with people I just watch porn which doesn’t even satisfy me anymore) I meet this friend like 4 times a day since August 2024 and I knew him before then too. So im still so confused on if it’s actually me having feelings or not. Why did all this start after ending the call. My brain says no you literally see him as a friend but it’s like im forcing it to be the reason for these feelings. I have no clue if it is the reason or not. If I like him or not. Maybe it’s just because I know I will never find a relationship? I was fine with that for years. Why does it bother me now? Im sorry to just burst out and say too many things at the same time. I’ve had undiagnosed Anxiety, Social Anxiety $ Imposter syndrome. I don’t wanna be depressed also. What do you guys recommend? I want to go to therapy but I can’t let them help me without them knowing everything (Including me being gay) If I don’t tell them, they wont have all info and will probably be unable to help me….

Sexual assault

Trauma Support / by friendlyShade2009

16 minutes ago

...See more I live in Coolidge Arizona growing up my dad abused me and October 19th I was sexually assaulted by my father he wanted my phone out of my bra I was wearing a black jacket and no shirt under just a black sports bra I am a 15 year old with D cups. It was my dad's day and I had just gotten back from a sleepvover and it was 12 am and I was tired so I was at my mom's house. The court says I'm allowed to have my phone at my dad's house and that he can not take it from me he can also not do corporal punishment on me. It was 12:00 a.m. and my father had came to the door of my mom's house and told me to come outside and leave my phone at my mom's house I told him no I put the phone in my bra and we went to his house we got into the house I walked into the kitchen and then I walked into the living room and he unzipped my jacket and reached into my bra and try to grab my phone he was scratching me and was assaulting me I got pushed to the floor and hit my head and my back on the tile really hard I was crying and became a little ball crying he left for a while to play cards I limping to the bathroom locked the door and texted my friend the address 10 minutes later the cops came my father was not arrested at all they opened an investigation and CPS came it's December now I was supposed to talk to a detective and never got a call they basically gave up on me Coolidge cops gave up on me CPS never looked in his house he has all types of drugs in his house out in the open he drinks alcohol a lot and it's filled in his fridge CPS gave up on me the cops never arrested him for sexual assault towards a minor. My father lives 2 streets down from me . The nightmare every night. Every one gave up. I even did a rape kit to help the case but it's going nowhere I feel alone I LEFT SOME PARTS OUT BECAUSE I DONT WANT PEOPLE KNOWING WHAT HE SAID TO ME DURING IT!!!

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