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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: November 21st–November 27th

Personality Disorders Support / by QuietMagic

2 minutes ago

...See more Hello, PD Support Community! Image source: FLUX1.1 pro 💜 What have you been thinking about lately? 💜 What's something you wish others could understand about you that often gets misunderstood? If you prefer not to answer these questions, feel free to say hello, ask for a hug, or share anything else that's on your mind. 💜 If you would like to be added or removed from the taglist, click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/Resources_2667/PersonalityDisordersSupportCommunityTaglist_284167/] Taglist: @Adeline12345 @adventurousCat7477 @AlfAndthemachine @alleywood13 @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @amicableDime9946 @AndreaDawn @arbanon @ARC80 @AspenCade@AutumnLauren6 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @b4Damion @BaggageClaim @berrymimi @bestcase @Blue123456618 @blueAngel00 @caringPerspective41 @CheerySandi @ChristmasGift @courageousPond1835 @crang17 @crimsonPlane2738 @cyanPlatypus6370 @dagaz13th @DamagedOne13 @daydreammemories @dberryy @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DIDisaythat @DoggoMom @ebonyyyblondie89 @EddaLayla @emerijourney @EmmaSwan18 @EmotionalNerd @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fearlessOcean2254 @fearlessSouth4632 @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @forcefulFriend4768 @FreakFactor7 @generousEyes493 @Glue @Goldcherry2113 @GRAPSPRO2033 @GreenScarab @Hadeel96 @HashiramaNinja @Healing0Pillow @healingHeart1111 @heartycitrus @HopeandFaith @Hyacinth22 @IdolPigment @ImaginativePenny152 @imclover @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @Irishrose78 @itsmeow @Jasminerice @Jish07541 @JoniGirl @Jupiterbeingahuman @JusticiaPrimalDorogo @JustSophia @K87 @kindTurtle3738 @LabeledBPD @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @learningtolovemyself @Lemino @LightsFromDark @Lilac4Roses @LiliTwolsky @limeRaspberries2286 @lovelyWords13 @LoveTracker @maple23 @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @munchiegoosie @nervoussmiles @NightshadeVenom @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @passionateJackfruit5095 @Piggy @placidShade4261 @Pointlesswords @Psalm139 @QueenBee03 @QueenSerenity5 @QuietMagic @racqueldawn @raininglillies13 @raspberryWatermelon7195 @rationalGrapefruitq @Red789 @RelaxedPanda @RemorseCode2 @Rex0911 @RoadLessTraveled @runaway101 @SadBlueEyes @selfdisciplinedBunny232 @ShyCat1678201 @SilverSeastar @Sleepwalkermw @spectacularCandy9984 @Stardew3 @Starilus @StrangeKat @sunflower2480 @Tamy4210 @Tatianaalize @tohealthemoon @toucans @Triscups @Twigo7 @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @witchyyrose @Xe

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50 & Over Community / by amiablePeace77

3 minutes ago

*Chomp*

General Support / by genericbeing

4 minutes ago

CupsGiving-The PAT Edition!🥰

Positivity & Gratitude / by Sunisshiningandsoareyou

6 minutes ago

...See more Hey hey everyone, it's thaaaaatttt time of the year, and of course our lovely Peer Appreciation Program [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/] had to step up!🥰 (For what?😮) For Thanksgiving. (duh!) While traditional festivities often center around enormous feasts with family and friends gathered around a table, we have the unique opportunity to adapt our celebrations for a virtual world, our beloved Cups-Space here. Thanksgiving, however one sees it, is mostly, I feel a joyful occasion that calls for gratitude, connection, and, most importantly, a genuine appreciation for the wonderful people in our lives. As we gather virtually on Cupsland, let’s celebrate the spirit of Thanksgiving by shining a light on one another and making this a joyous celebration of our friendships, support systems, love, kindness and the compassion we share.💛 So this year, let’s celebrate "Cups-giving"~ a delightful riff on Thanksgiving where we celebrate and "refill" each other's cups with positivity and gratitude. And what better way to do that than through words of appreciation? Because hey, a few kind words, and some genuine encouragement really does go a long long way.🥰 Each of us carries a unique cup filled with our emotions, experiences, efforts, and moments shared. The beauty of our community lies in the support and joy we bring to one another, yes(?). I believe, every interaction, every smile, every encouraging word, every kind act, every thoughtful gesture adds a drop to our collective cup~ the giant 7CupsCommunityCup that has every possible flavor brewed with love, and garnished with kindness!💛 ------------------------- I can really go on about the Spirit of Thanksgiving, the Importance of Gratitude and my Excitement to see the Appreciations flowing in, but we got to do this early, so the notes can be delivered *this* year 😂 and therefore, without further yapping, to kick things off, here are some fun and heartfelt prompts for you to spread joy and appreciation around.💛 (I think I already did half the work here for you 😛) All there's left now is to truly embrace the spirit of gratitude within and make someone's day with a heartfelt message!🥰 ⭐ [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to a listener here. (Someone who listened and supported in either PMs, Forums or Chatrooms) 💕 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to a fellow peer (member/ listener) who inspires you. 💙 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to someone who mentored or guided you here. (In any way big or small) 😄 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to the last peer who made you smile on here. (Ah tough, because sooo many smiley-spreaders here) 🤣 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to the person who always makes you laugh. (We've got some around here with the best humor lol) 🌻 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to someone you find encouraging and uplifting. (Easyyyy) 💬 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you to the last person you talked to here. (Hopefully it was a good chat hehe, they deserve to know they've left a mark) 💡 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to someone who has shared a helpful resource or tip or insight with you. (Mhmm, can think of so many) 🤗 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to a friend who’s been there for you through ups and downs. (You get to appreciate your palsss woohoo) 🎨 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you to someone who brightens your day with their creativity. (Ooh if you're ever confused, please hop over to the peer appreciation program thread and you'll find some very talented people to appreciate) 🦋 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to someone whose passion inspires you. (Could be for anything really, a hobby, to get better/ work on their goals and health, a passionate 7 cups leader etc etc) 💥 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you to a peer who has shared a meaningful experience/ deeply resonant interaction with you. (There's conversations, and then there's some conversations that leave an ever-lasting impact, can you think of someone who did this for you?) 🤩 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to someone you admire for their hard work and dedication. (Oh to be spoiled with choices) 🥳 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to someone who encourages you to be your best self. (Someone who brings out the best in youuuu here) 🌈 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to a peer whose kindness has made a difference in your life. (I've got plenty) 📚 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you to someone who has taught you something new recently. (About cups or life, again, anything big or small counts) 🧚‍♀️ [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you message to a forum-fairy. (Someone who is seen being a supportive, uplifting fairy in the forums) 🤝 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to the Group-Support-Hero. (Someone you've witnessed hosting fantastically or participating enthusiastically in a group chatroom) 🫶 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a note to someone you think could use some kindness, encouragement, support and love. (Legit everyone here hehe) 🥰 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/formResponse] Send a thank you note to yourself. (No no, dont you roll your eyes at me lol! You deserve it too [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PeerAppreciationProgram_2310/AppreciateYourForever1_273981/]~because you are amazinggggg) ------------------------- To make this funn-errr, how about a little game-ish spin to it? Sooo when you've submitted your thank you note, along with your thoughts on our Cupsgiving Celebration, you can comment "Done" and drop the emoji of your choice from the above list, to serve as a prompt for the next person coming across it. 🥳 (In the slightest case, you wish to opt for a different prompt rather than the one you got from the previous comment, please feel free to pick and choose; it's the intentional participation that matters more here hehe) Okay Sun, that was a lot to read, Can I get started already?😮 Yessss, you can, just one last teeny message more and then off you gooooo spreading smiles and gratitude!🥹 Soooooo besides the smiles you're going to spread and receive here, we also have you covered with cheers! (What are cheers now? Read Up here lol! [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training/points/#]) For us, cheers are virtual tokens of appreciation that we like to award you with, for being your cheerful self spreading smiles! (🥳You recieve 20 cheers for each submission [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/CheersforCheerfulAppreciators_299216/]🥳) So when you spread gratitude, you’re not just making someone’s day brighter, you’re also getting rewarded for your kindness. It’s a win-win, yeah?! (I'd like to believe the reward is an "extra" here, like a bonus for your time and love, but in all honesty, just realizing you've made someone's day and made someone smile is worth every second spent in typing out a heart-warming message) Said everything but the most important thing? Where to send the note and where will we see it once posted? Oops yes, Click Me To Spread Joy [https://docs.google.com/forms/u/5/d/e/1FAIpQLScsCXyPYjQ4dsfLMh2ZzXC4of1lEutJsSasbkzc6JLDq7b8ow/viewform] (or the respective emoji you got) and the appreciations will be posted in the Peer Appreciation Program Thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/] itself. Yes, you can fill out as many appreciations you want to, for as many people you want to express your gratitude to or want to send a little "I'm thinking of you this thanksgiving" note. Utilising as many prompts you like to, or even without!🥰 (Wanna join hands on the other side of the table and help us deliver these notes too? Click here to join the Peer Appreciation Team [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfo8Myq7_mZ3_lt0AtTwRf4-7g3Fvy42oz3h-IXGS-C6Slu7g/viewform]) Alrighty, everything's covered, I thiiiinkkkk. So now just would like to take this opportunity to thank *you* for being a part of the community.💛 Wishing everyone a joyful, loving and content Thanksgiving!🤗

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Newbie Hub / by lauragomes

7 minutes ago

First post

General Support / by snooks08

14 minutes ago

...See more I’ve never done this before and I was a little hesitant to do this. I typed out a whole paragraph yesterday to post but stopped myself after rethinking. I’ve been struggling a lot and I just don’t know how to handle it anymore. I’ll start off by saying I lost my very close friend. She dropped me basically because of my mental health. It hurt and I was upset but it didn’t last long because the day after, my cousin died. Her viewing was today. I saw her and she looked beautiful but I could tell it just wasn’t her. I’m heartbroken over this and I don’t know how to help myself. Ive also been struggling with relationship issues. I have someone Im talking to, but I struggle with trust because my last relationship was life threatening. The guy I talk to now makes dark jokes and I take things like that seriously since what happened. They scare me. I told him and he stopped which is good and I don’t know why I can’t get over it. He’s a great guy and helps me. I ended up in the hospital over that relationship. I don’t wanna end up like that again. I’m starting to feel like that everyday and it makes me more anxious thinking about how I may become that way again. I never wanna feel like that again. Today was the viewing of my cousin and it was so hard. I felt like I had to go see her since Ive only saw her once since she was 2 months old. I told her bye and it was just one of the worst things Ive had to experience. Ive worked really hard to devote my life to God and since this Ive just felt distant from him. He was my only comfort and it hurts that as of now I can’t comfort myself in his words. I really just want to find a reason for this happening but I can’t. I feel so terrible for my uncle and aunt. Today, even though it probably wasn’t a good idea, I told my dad about my relationship because I wanted to get everything off my chest. He was angry and didn’t support it. He was gonna take me out of school and take my phone. I cant lose another person. Even though he says things that scare me, he’s helped me so much through this hard time. I’ve already lost so much I can’t lose anymore. I feel myself losing hope in life. I also have to go back in person to school. I went online due to some issues in the past. I have to go back soon and I’m very anxious. When I went online I noticed a lot of my friends becoming distant. So I feel alone in the sense of having someone to talk to. I just try to distract myself but I end up thinking about everything that has happened and I get anxious and honestly the feeling is unbearable. I don’t know how I’m gonna deal with this feeling everyday. I just hope someone can help or talk to me on here. I don’t know what else to do because my mom knows everything and is there for me but I still feel hopeless.

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