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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

HigherFlyer
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I'm a young person hoping to help make changes in the lives of those who need it! A bit about me: I'm an 'Advocate' (INFJ-T). I'm Non-binary,Asexual and Pansexual. I also have anxiety and autism. (Work in progress!)
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ThoughtLight
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Welcome. I am a writer, a bibliophile, an art lover, a college student, a thinker and a self advocate. I love psychology and psychoanalysis. I like helping people. I've struggled with mental illness for 16 so I get it. My experiences provide me some insight you can't be taught. Unfortunately I'm not allowed to just give out advice. There's other types of support I can provide. Let me point out that I'm a verified listener. Meaning I extensively trained in active listening skills. I want to guide you to help yourself. You will feel great at the end when you realize you solved to problem yourself. I'm a believer in process. Standing back and taking a rational look. I can be your sounding board. Or just someone to talk to. I'm a believer that you've got to put your mindset on getting better. A changing perspective. I can't provide you a diagnosis or reccomend treatment. And I love to give a self esteem boost. If I had to pick an area of expertise it would be bipolar disorder followed by borderline personality disorder. But view my long list of area I work with. Please pay attention to the areas I don't work it. Please be respectful and honor that list. In my chat room we keep things respectful. I stand stand for being disrespected. I won't disrespect you. Also, complete religious tolerance is a standard. If I don't accept your request but my green light is on I'm full but will get back. If my red light is on I'm not accepting members. You can attempt a message. If I'm around I do make exceptions. Or I might actually be off site. Let's get you feeling better. Am open to having regulars. Also, I am here for faith based listening. I'm Christian. And churches have neglected the mentally ill minority. I'm working on it.Ā  And to point out the biggest problems on the list I don't work in: PTSD, sexual abuse, relationships. I look forward to chatting with anyone who needs my help. Personal requests do draw my attention first.Ā 
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RoxyFantastic
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To be awesome is a choice not a consequence.
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Comfortablesmile
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Hi,Ā  I'm Esther, a simple girl that wants to fulfill purpose by offering comfort to people who are going through mental health challenges. I'm so passionate about it because i have been there. I don't know how to share my problems to people and there are people like me out there and a good friend of mine helped me during the most difficult time of my life that would have led to a serious mental health issue. I am fine now and i want to offer help to another person. You can talk to me as your own buddy and i will give you the full attention that you need. Trust me, you will be fine..... You're not alone
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being šŸŒæ (Currently not accepting new member chats, need to focus on my studies. My current member buddies, feel free to reach out whenever you want!šŸ˜„) Note: Unless I take your general request, I will be taking personal requests from the topics 'anxiety', 'panic attacks', 'PTSD', 'depression' and 'student life' regarding non-relationship issues ONLY. I try to keep it respectful at all times, and I expect you to do the same, so we can create a really awesome place for you to share and feel safe. Everyone has their own unique story, and I'm honored to listen to yours.šŸ˜Š) ------------------------- I'll be there for you Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ā™§ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been?šŸ˜Š Iā€™ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we donā€™t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. Thatā€™s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. Iā€™m not going to tell you what to do and what not toĀ do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simplyĀ care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealingĀ with something harsh which life threw at you. Iā€™m not a saint or an agnel. IĀ make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, Iā€™m not goingĀ to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that Iā€™ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) āœØYou canā€™t be the hero in everyoneā€™s story. āœØYou donā€™t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. āœØTake your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone elseā€™s. āœØSpace and time make some things better, if youā€™re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. āœØWe all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesnā€™t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. āœØI agree that even best friends canā€™t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, Iā€™m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: šŸ•ŠļøA fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.Ā  šŸ•ŠļøI love learning new languages. šŸ•ŠļøIā€™m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. šŸ•ŠļøI love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.Ā  šŸ•ŠļøFriends and Modern Family are my twoĀ comfort shows. šŸ•ŠļøI'm a pretty good photographerĀ šŸ“·. šŸ•ŠļøGreen is my favorite color šŸ’š.Ā  šŸ•ŠļøI am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.Ā  May all your days be blessed, Take care!šŸ˜‡ ā€œMessage in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to youā€ T.S. šŸ˜ŠĀ šŸ’•
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courageousRiver589
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Hi! I'm a 29 year old who has been through his share of trauma and emotional abuse. I wasĀ Ā brought up by highly toxic parents,Ā bullied as a kid, been in relationships with narcissists, amongst other experiences. I'm here to give to others what I wish I had for myself when I was going through all that: a caring non-judgmental friend who is here to listen and to be there for you. No matter what you're going through, you will only receive empathy, love, and acceptance here. I love 7cups. People who come on here are people who are taking a step in the right direction. They are honest with themselves, and are taking steps to heal by sharing their emotions and feelings instead of quashing them and letting them fester. I have met the most incredible people on here and value everyone's own unique story. It is my small way of making this world a little bit of a better place. I cherish the friendships I have made on here already, and I can't wait to meet you as well!
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MAC001
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Hello! My name is Mac but I have no relations with Apple Inc., but I do wish I had some of their stocks. šŸ˜”Ā I am originally from Bangladesh but I decided to see if the Eiffel Tower is really tall or not. You cannot just always believe your bird neighbors.Ā šŸ˜‚Ā  Some human find me funny, I do look funny with that sunflower bow on me. Although only humans over 18 can understand me. Probably cause I am also a pretty big cat (almost a quarter foot tall) no matter how small I look.Ā šŸ˜ So, what brings you here? You can tell me, cats do not judge, at all. Only personal requests though, I do like to feel special, I guess that makes me a bit different from all the other cats, you know?šŸ˜Ā  So What story do you have for me? Even though you canā€™t really see my ears for the bow on me, I am all ears!Ā šŸ˜ŠĀ Letā€™s hear your story!
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RainbowRosie
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Hi there and welcome. Iā€™m Rosie, a verified listener and Iā€™ve been here on 7 Cups for nearly four years. As Iā€™veĀ gone through some difficult times myself, I know just how good it is to have someone you can talk to.Ā  As Iā€™m passionate about mental health Iā€™m here toĀ listen and be there for you. Please be reassured I'm non judgemental and want to help make you feel supported and heard.Ā LGBTQ+ friendly šŸŒˆĀ  If Iā€™m not online then please feel free to leave me a message and Iā€™ll get back to you as soon as I can. My only ask is that you please share a little about what it is youā€™d like to chat about in your message, thank you. Ā  Ā  PLEASE NOTE: Ā Iā€™m here to listen and chatā€¦NO sex chat. Ā I do accept casual chats. I'm not comfortable with sexual health related topics.Ā  Thank you so much for reaching out. Rosie šŸŒ¹ Graduate from the; Quality Listening Program Leadership Development Programme Inner Development Goals Course šŸŒ¹ 7 Things about me; Iā€™m an animal lover, especially dogs and have two myselfĀ  I love dark chocolate I prefer baking to cookingĀ  Iā€™m a proud LGBT+ ally I work and am also a pt carer for my lovely mum whoā€™s in her 80s Iā€™m a coffee lover and could just drink one nowĀ  I like to laughā€¦so do it as much as I can šŸ˜€ ******* šŸŒ¹ OneĀ of my favourite quotes; When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hold on. šŸŒ¹ A few things I remind myself of; ā€˜Staying positive doesnā€™t mean you have to be happy all the time. It means that even on hard days, you know that there are better days comingā€™. ā€™Everyone you meet is going through something that you have no idea of. If you canā€™t help then at least be kindā€™. ā€˜To get a rainbow you have to first deal with the rainā€™ šŸŒˆ ******* šŸŒ¹ When away from 7 Cups I find the following helpful to relax;Ā  Reading, swimming, walking my dogs or sitting out in the garden with a nice cuppa. Crisis Resources Please note that 7cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis, it's important to reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you:Ā  Remember, it's okay to ask for help. Your well-being is important, and there are people and resources available to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to. (U.S.)Ā The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/]Ā atĀ 1-800-273-8255 [tel:18002738255] Crisis Text Line [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in] (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 (Canada) Text HOME to 686868Ā  International Association for Suicide PreventionĀ  [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645Ā Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]Ā  UKĀ  CallĀ Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/]Ā 116 123Ā  CallĀ Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/]Ā 080020068204141 [tel:080020068204141]Ā or textĀ 0778620209697 [tel:0778620209697] AustraliaĀ Lifeline Crisis SupportĀ  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services]Ā call Ā 13 11 14 India click the link to find a local crisis line withĀ Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø Ā 
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Smilingsoul11
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I am here to listen you feel free to connect.Ā  *Please check the list before chat* Issues I am UNCOMFORTABLE with:- *Sexual issues *Borderline *Racial and cultural identity
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helpingKiddo
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Hello, I'm here to help you if you feel like talking or sharing something, then chat with me when I'm online and if I'm offline message me, and I will reply once I'm back online. I'm a Clinical Psychologist by profession. Our conversation will be entirely secure and will be a judgment-free zone. So hope to see you in my chat soon. All the best with life. Take care! ļ»æ
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lemontree68
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Hiya there, beautiful person! Ā Welcome to my profile! I'm here to provide support and guidance whenever you need someone to talk to. As an empathetic and compassionate listener, I promise to create a safe space for you to share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns. Together, we can explore your feelings and emotions, and work towards figuring things out. Through active engagement, empathy, and practical strategies, I will do my best to aid you to navigate through life's challenges and build resilience. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard, loved, and supported, and I'm committed to making a positive difference in your life. I make sure to create a safe space to share your deepest thoughts and emotions, and I immensely value the trust that you put in me to help you out. In case you don't see me online at the moment, feel free to send a message and I'll be sure to get back to you! Topics I'm most well versed in - Self-Harm, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Eating Disorders, Anxiety, Grief (Please reach out to a different listener if you are seeking support on topics other than the listed ones, they'd be much better equippedĀ in helping you out!) Thank you for letting me try to help you šŸ’– *currently on break* An apology to any member that might be trying to contact me - I would absolutely love to help you out with what you're currently going through, though unfortunately I'm struggling with a difficult situation in my life. I may still occasionally be able to read messages but I will not be able to respond to them. I do not know for how long this will last, but I hope to come back here soon. Do remember that you're a brave soul to reach out and ask for help, that your problems matter, and that you do deserve to be helped. I'm so glad that you're here. Take care
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gracefulBelle
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ļ»æHi, there! Congratulations for choosing to be here with usĀ šŸ¤—I am gracefulBelle and it will be my absolute pleasure to listen and support you.Ā  Looking forward to chatting with you soon ...!'The Kingdom of Heaven suffers violence and the valor taketh by force'Ā (Matthew, 11:12)YOU HAVE THE POWER TO DIRECT AND DRIVE YOUR MENTAL WELLBEING TO THRIVE !PS: I mentor trainees in our Quality Listening Program only at the moment ... (AVAILABLE WEEKDAYS: 14:00 - 16:00 (sast) / 16:00 - 18:00 (sast) / WEEKENDS AVAILABLE UPON APPOINTMENT)Ā 
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