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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ThoughtLight
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Welcome. I am a writer, a bibliophile, an art lover, a college student, a thinker and a self advocate. I love psychology and psychoanalysis. I like helping people. I've struggled with mental illness for 16 so I get it. My experiences provide me some insight you can't be taught. Unfortunately I'm not allowed to just give out advice. There's other types of support I can provide. Let me point out that I'm a verified listener. Meaning I extensively trained in active listening skills. I want to guide you to help yourself. You will feel great at the end when you realize you solved to problem yourself. I'm a believer in process. Standing back and taking a rational look. I can be your sounding board. Or just someone to talk to. I'm a believer that you've got to put your mindset on getting better. A changing perspective. I can't provide you a diagnosis or reccomend treatment. And I love to give a self esteem boost. If I had to pick an area of expertise it would be bipolar disorder followed by borderline personality disorder. But view my long list of area I work with. Please pay attention to the areas I don't work it. Please be respectful and honor that list. In my chat room we keep things respectful. I stand stand for being disrespected. I won't disrespect you. Also, complete religious tolerance is a standard. If I don't accept your request but my green light is on I'm full but will get back. If my red light is on I'm not accepting members. You can attempt a message. If I'm around I do make exceptions. Or I might actually be off site. Let's get you feeling better. Am open to having regulars. Also, I am here for faith based listening. I'm Christian. And churches have neglected the mentally ill minority. I'm working on it.  And to point out the biggest problems on the list I don't work in: PTSD, sexual abuse, relationships. I look forward to chatting with anyone who needs my help. Personal requests do draw my attention first. 
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (Currently not accepting new member chats, need to focus on my studies. My current member buddies, feel free to reach out whenever you want!😄) Note: Unless I take your general request, I will be taking personal requests from the topics 'anxiety', 'panic attacks', 'PTSD', 'depression' and 'student life' regarding non-relationship issues ONLY. I try to keep it respectful at all times, and I expect you to do the same, so we can create a really awesome place for you to share and feel safe. Everyone has their own unique story, and I'm honored to listen to yours.😊) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been?😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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walkalot
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*Not taking new members for now. I need to slow down. I will still support my current members. Thanks for your understanding.* I don't claim to be an expert, but I appreciate when people listen respectfully and attentively to me. I hope to provide the same for you.
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Sasuke7007
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Happy to help you
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pandanfe
L Expert 3 883
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Happiness lies within us... I'm not into casual talks rather deep chats. 
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InsightfulPhoenix
L Specialist 2 162
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My name is InsightfulPhoenix or Phoe 🥰 I'm 100% Nonbinary bean, my pronouns are she/they I'm a proud parent, I'm also very much engaged💖 I enjoy the little things in life. Please respect my pronouns, boundaries as a person. We all have things we go through so choose kindness, because some people fight silent battles💖
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Bunnylovesyou
L Guru 2 2021
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My profile picture was picked by @lovemymoonflowers! it just took me so long to get it up here!  shout out to @KateDoskocilova , my boss aha  Greetings Weary Traveler! I am so happy you stumbled upon my little page <3 I am proud of you for how far you’ve come. Why don’t you rest for a while, I am sure you need it? *offers blankets and a drink* Since you are here, why don’t we get to know each other a bit.  I am Bunny. I began my Listener journey over a year ago. I’m 16 years old, I am Homeschooled but in 10th grade (Year 11, Sophomore). I use He/They pronouns, but I know some of my members don’t feel comfortable with a male listener so I will say I am AFAB (assigned female at birth) My favorite color is Yellow. I don’t like making my bed because I like to sleep inside the blob. When I am not on 7cups, I am reading, crocheting, painting, or playing my clarinet! What about you? What is your name? Pronouns? I want to get to know you, hear about your life, the good, the bad, and the hairy. I mean scary xD.  What kind of chats do I offer? =>Support Chats on allowed Topics  =>Lighthearted Chats, for some comfort or a friend =>Book recommendation/ramble chats =>Chats with Age-regressed members  =>Jeffy chats  So you are probably wondering what all of those chats mean. Well let me break it down:  Support Chats on Allowed Topics: I do not take chats on Men’s Issues, Weight Loss, Exercise Motivation, or Cancer, due to personal triggers. I have lived experience in : Abuse, Adhd, Anxiety, Abandonment issues, Breakups, Bullying, Chronic Pain/illness, Depression, Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Dysphoria, Eating Disorders, Family Stress, Financial Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, LGBTQ+ Issues, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Recovery, Relationship Stress, Self-esteem, Self Harm, Sleeping Well, Social Anxiety, Spirtuality, and Student Life. I do take chats on other topics, just not the ones in red.  Please Note that while I take chats on Sexual Health, I do not wish to be asked on advice for self-pleasure, and or talk about that, as it is a personal trigger for me. I hope you understand<3 While I take chats on spirituality, Please don't ask about my religion. I am an Atheist, who believes everyone can make their own choices, and I support Religion.  Lighthearted Chats:  I take lighthearted chats! Want a friend? Want a cookie? Want to just talk to someone? I am your pal <3 Just note I prioritize the support chats <3 Book Recommendations/Ramble Chats-  Need help figuring out what to read next? Read an amazing book you want to tell someone about? Do you want to just ramble about how your favorite character ever did something so mind exploding you can't handle it? I am here! I would love to listen to your favorite genres and favorite books and offer some recommendations, or just to talk about books!  Jeffy Chats- Message me ‘Jeffy Pic’ for a picture of my rabbit Jeffery!  My mental health journey:  Many members ask me about my journey, and what led me here. So I will share a little bit here. I live in a mentally abusive house. I have various health issues, which cause me to be in constant unbearable pain. I am hoping to have surgery this summer to help. I also have problems regulating my blood sugar, so it will drop randomly, which might cause me to have to leave our chat, I don’t want you to have an unconscious listener xD. I was in a sexually abusive relationship for 8 months last year, and I am recovering from anorexia. Rules for my chats/Things to keep in mind:  =>Swearing is okay, please don’t cuss me out  =>I allow age-regressing, but please try to make the messages comprehensible  =>Please don’t just say ‘Hello’, let me know what you'd like to talk about  =>I have PTSD, so if I randomly ask you to refer to another listener, it is because i am triggered. I want you to get the best care possible <3 =>Please don’t send messages in all caps <3 Roles on 7cups (past, current, and on break) =>Verified Listener (current) =>Newbie Hub Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Forum Supporter (On-break) =>LGBTQ Mod (on-break) =>LGBTQ Forum Supporter (on-break) =>Door Keeper (current) =>Anxiety Chat Host (past) =>PAT Smile Spreader (past, although i may come back) =>Safety Patrol (current) =>LRS (past) =>Peer Support (current) Thank you for reading my bio, you amazing lovely wonderful person, and I hope to hear from you soon <3
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SnowTabby
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Hello Lovely 🌞 I am not actively taking one-on-one chats as I am focusing on my role within Care Team as a Project Agent as well as training for Quality Mentor!! I hope you have a wonderful day filled with peace 💖
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PM1965
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Hi! My name is PM, I’m a verified Listener on Cups and looking forward to listening to you.  A little more about me I’m a husband of 33 years, father, brother and veteran! In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, listening to classic rock music and creative writing!  I have lived experience with the following topics:◾Alcohol Abuse ◾Drug Abuse ◾Bipolar Disorder ◾Childhood Sexual Abuse ◾Depression ◾LGBTQ+
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Kristynsmama
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Note:  I am currently not accepting personal requests for chats from new members. *:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚Hello!!*:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚ Welcome to ✨Kristynsmama's✨ Profile Page!!  ✨I am a verified listener here on 7 cups!✨  ✨I am so glad that you have stopped by!!✨ ✨I am in CST.✨ ✨I currently am not able to accept personal requests. ✨ ✨Fun Facts✨ ✨I live on a farm.✨ ✨I love animals✨ ✨I have 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, 6 barn cats, 2 horses, 4 chickens, 2 saltwater fish tanks, 2 fresh water fishtanks, 1 donkey, 1 llama, and a partridge in a pear tree.✨ ✨I can turn any conversation into a conversation about dogs✨ 🌻I grow all of my own fruits and vegetables and they are all organic.🌻 🌻I may grow fruits and veggies, but I still believe that Chocolate should be it’s own food group🌻 ✨My favorite colors are blue and purple.✨ ✨I have an alarmingly large collection of keychains from around the world.✨  ✨My hobbies include horseback riding and jumping.  And I used to be a barrel racer.  I also enjoy painting although I’m not great at it.  And I’m an avid cyclist.  In my spare time, I enjoy riding a motorcycle. ✨I have a chronic autoimmune disease that sometimes makes my energy plummet.  I usually update my profile at the top of my profile if I’m going to be taking a self care day. ✨If you really knew me, you would know that my passion in life is to support other people through challenges that I myself have been through.  I have lived experience in grief and loss, eating disorders, addiction, depression, anxiety, and much more.✨ My current leadership roles include: ✨Approved Adult-Teen listener ✨Chatroom Mentor ✨Teen Chatroom Mentor ✨Community Mentor Leader: grief & loss ✨Forum Supporter:  Self Injury ✨Community Mentor ✨Quality Mentor ✨Academy Mentor:  LDP ✨Safety Patrol ✨Anonymous Evaluations Team ✨Academy Outreach Project Agent ✨Anonymous Evaluations Project Agent ✨Quality Mentor Project Agent ✨Communities Leadership Project Agent ✨Peer support ✨Chat support ✨Teen Chat Support ✨Chatroom Moderator (Newbie Hub) ✨Listener Discussion Leader ✨Doorkeeper ✨Kindness Crusader nominator ✨I have completed the following courses:✨ ✨Leadership Development graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Internship Graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 01/24 ✨Inner Development Goals Program Graduate 12/2023 ✨Community Builder Course Graduate 12/2023 ✨The Listener chats that I currently host are: ✨Listener check in Mondays at 9 pm EST in the LCR ✨Listener Sharing Circle:  once a month.  I will post the date and time on my bio here on the 1st of each month. ✨Grief & Loss Group Support Chat  adults:  2nd and last Wed of each month 9-11 pm EST in Support Session Adult Room ✨teens:  1st and 3rd Wed of each month from 9-10 pm EST in the Support Session for Teens Chatroom. ✨Ask Me Anything (AMA)  next one will be Tuesday, May 7th at 9 pm EST.  After that AMA’s will be the first Wed of each month at 9 pm EST. 💖If I don’t respond right away, Please find another listener here💖 💛What is 7 cups?💛 ⭐️It IS a place for you to come where you can share life’s challenges in a safe, confidential and supportive environment! ⭐️It IS a place for you to discover your own solutions to your problems with the help and guidance of a non judgmental person. 💛What 7 cups IS NOT💛 ⭐️It is not a place for crisis intervention.  If you are actively suicidal, please understand that I will not chat with you.  Instead, I will send you a list of resources.  You are welcome to reach out to me again once you are feeling better! ⭐️It is NOT a place to discuss sexual desires, fantasies, or role plays in any capacity.  I will not take sexual chats. 💛What is the role of a listener?💛 ⭐️A listener is NOT a therapist.   ⭐️They are simply volunteers who want to support you and guide you to discover your own solutions to your problems. ⭐️A listener should never give you advice! 💛My Chat guidelines💛 ✨ Please follow the community guidelines in any chat with me.  I will always do the same. ✨Please do not chat with me about sexual topics.  This includes pornography, fantasies, asking me to role play a fantasy, and asking intimate details about my own sex life or fantasies/desires. ✨All of my chats are about 60 minutes each and my time is valuable and limited.  I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available. ✨Please do not ask for my instagram, Facebook, email address, phone number, etc….  I will not give out any identifying information for your safety and for mine and because it is against community policy!  Equally I will not reveal where I live, my gender or my age.  If those things are that important to you, then it's probably best you find another listener. ✨ I follow a 3 warning system.  If you choose to disregard my boundaries, I will disconnect the chat on the third warning. 🛑 Chat Topics I DO NOT TAKE: 🛑 ✨Men’s Issues (sorry guys, I’m a lady and I just don’t have knowledge). ✨Sexual Health 🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Listener Twins ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Jenna Averyjr23 dreamicicle8467 Dancat1128 ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Kindness Twin: ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 AnnaSilverberg My amazing mentor is also AnnaSilverberg and credit for my adorable profile pic also goes to Anna!
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
L Guru 8 472
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I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more. The topics I do  not take at this time are 1 weight management  2 eating disorders 3  alcohol /  drug abuse 4 addiction chats 5 financial stress any other topic that is not listed here I am ok taking.
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SanjuscenicRecipe8622
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You are welcome 🤗 Used to be an active listener few years back. Deactivated my account sometime back and this is my new account.  Happy to support 🌹
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