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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

SirenOfSerenity
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🚫⚠️ Topics I don't prefer are: Sexual Topics, Relationship Stress/Breakups, Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, PTSD or Casual Chats. Depression, Abuse, Self Harm, Addiction, OCD and PTSD are the topics I lack personal experience in. * My chat availability is 30 minutes to 1 hour maximum * You can view the topics I accept in my profile's "Categories" section 🪷  ------------------------- Pronouns: She/Her, Age: 29, Eastern Standard Time Zone 🇺🇲  You can call me Siren or Serenity 🪔 I am of Light, because I have experienced and gained wisdom from my "dark". You too, can shine your way through your darkness 🌤  ------------------------- Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  Has there been a Member or Listener in the Cups Community that has really made a positive impact on your time here? Appreciate them by clicking the blue "Peer Appreciation Form" button 💙 ------------------------- 💌 3 Fun Facts About Me: Originally from the Caribbean Islands 🌴 my zodiac sign is Taurus ♉️ sun with a Cancer ♋️ moon and my personality type is INFJ-A 🌙✨️ ------------------------- In the Listener Community, my primary roles are: ✨️ Retired Adult Listener Chatroom Ambassador ✨️Active Mentor Leader for the Listener Coaching Team ✨️ Active Listener Verifier ✨️ Active Listener Quality Mentor ✨️ Active Listening Test Grader for AL 1 & 3 ✨️ Academy Mentor for the Content Development & Marketing Program (CDM)
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seroloppo
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a person who you can feel free to share all your deepest secrets and ask your questions.❤️
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ThoughtLight
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Welcome. I am a writer, a bibliophile, an art lover, a college student, a thinker and a self advocate. I love psychology and psychoanalysis. I like helping people. I've struggled with mental illness for 16 so I get it. My experiences provide me some insight you can't be taught. Unfortunately I'm not allowed to just give out advice. There's other types of support I can provide. Let me point out that I'm a verified listener. Meaning I extensively trained in active listening skills. I want to guide you to help yourself. You will feel great at the end when you realize you solved to problem yourself. I'm a believer in process. Standing back and taking a rational look. I can be your sounding board. Or just someone to talk to. I'm a believer that you've got to put your mindset on getting better. A changing perspective. I can't provide you a diagnosis or reccomend treatment. And I love to give a self esteem boost. If I had to pick an area of expertise it would be bipolar disorder followed by borderline personality disorder. But view my long list of area I work with. Please pay attention to the areas I don't work it. Please be respectful and honor that list. In my chat room we keep things respectful. I stand stand for being disrespected. I won't disrespect you. Also, complete religious tolerance is a standard. If I don't accept your request but my green light is on I'm full but will get back. If my red light is on I'm not accepting members. You can attempt a message. If I'm around I do make exceptions. Or I might actually be off site. Let's get you feeling better. Am open to having regulars. Also, I am here for faith based listening. I'm Christian. And churches have neglected the mentally ill minority. I'm working on it.  And to point out the biggest problems on the list I don't work in: PTSD, sexual abuse, relationships. I look forward to chatting with anyone who needs my help. Personal requests do draw my attention first. 
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DrAhmedslah
L Proficient 8 2027
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Talk to me about anything you want :) I prefer talking with ((Arabic)) but i can talk with English :) 
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ChillingRain
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Back from my long self-care break.  Please read my bio before messaging me. Heya. I'm Rain. It's very nice meeting you! I'm a college student from Turkey. Despite my young age I have been through a lot journeying life, so I promise to offer a compassionate and judgment-free environment in our chats. I commend your courage and strength: reaching out for support is never easy!  **As listed on my profile, I only offer support chats in English. Although I am fluent in more languages, I have taken my training in English, thus I feel comfortable offering support in that language.** **I am quite busy lately and most likely won't find the time to reply to any new member requests.** Topics I am most comfortable offering support with: - Anxiety & Anxiety Attacks - Depression - Panic Attacks - Break-Ups - Self-Harm - Domestic Abuse - Relationship Stress Topics I prefer not to discuss: - LGBTQIA+ Issues - Personality Disorders - Schizophrenia - Grief - Politics or religion.  **Please note; I prefer not to discuss these topics since they are triggering for me so I am not equipped to offer support with them.** Graduate of Quality Listening, Leadership Development, and Internship with honors.  Listener Twins: @Ralien! Amazing listener and a great friend! Ralien is super supportive and always willing to improve. Like an Oriental Lilly!  ✧⁠◝⁠(⁠⁰⁠▿⁠⁰⁠)⁠◜⁠✧(⁠´⁠∩⁠。⁠•⁠ ⁠ᵕ⁠ ⁠•⁠。⁠∩⁠`⁠) @LittleBirdie30 Best team leader ever! One of the nicest people I've talked to. You're a Lilly of the Valley! (⁠◠⁠‿⁠・⁠)⁠—⁠☆(⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠) @Lunaire00 Extraordinarily kind person! And an excellent Listener Verifier. You're like an Azalea flower! (⁠♡⁠ω⁠♡⁠ ⁠)⁠ ⁠~⁠♪(⁠ ⁠´⁠◡⁠‿⁠ゝ⁠◡⁠`⁠) @SirenOfSerenity If Siren was a chemical substance they'd be Thaumatin. Extremely sweet! (⁠。⁠・⁠ω⁠・⁠。⁠)⁠ノ⁠♡(⁠人⁠ ⁠•͈⁠ᴗ⁠•͈⁠) @KindnessMatters2020 Best Mentor I could ask for! If they were a flower, they'd be a Jasmine; graceful and sweet. (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆⁠)(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠♡ @Suryansh I don't know how a human being can be so sweet and easy to approach. Surya is amazing, like a Nicotiana! (⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠)(⁠*⁠˘⁠︶⁠˘⁠*⁠)⁠.⁠。⁠*⁠♡ @AuRewolf My amazing peer, Wolf. Like a Sweet William, your presence lights up each group support room you're in! (⁠◡⁠ ⁠ω⁠ ⁠◡⁠)⊂⁠(⁠´⁠・⁠◡⁠・⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠∘⁠˚⁠˳⁠° @FaithfulZareia Your presence in TL lights up the room! I'd say you're like a Anise Hyssop! Sweet, super helpful and kind, and just gorgeous! (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆⁠)⊂⁠(⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠*⁠.⁠✧ My Leadership Roles: - Adult-Teen Listener - Care Team Project Agent - Chatroom Mentor (for adult and teen side) - Chat Support (for adult and teen side) - Peer Support - Doorkeeper - Listener Community Discussions Host (on break) - Anonymous Evaluations Team (former role) - Listener Verifiers' Team (former role)
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SherlockX221b
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For English, scroll down 👇🏻  أهلا بيك 💙 يشرفني إني أسمعلك في أي موضوع من المواضيع اللي محدداها، دي أكتر مواضيع انا مريت بيها او عندي فكرة عنها، هسمعلك بكل اهتمام مادام الاحترام ما بينا 💙 متشخصة بـ delusional disorder و اقدر اساعد في المواضيع المتعلقة بالذهان و الهلاوس السمعية والبصرية انا مش بقبل أي موضوع جنسي  Hey there! welcome to my profile, I'll try my best to help you and listen to you as long as you need, don't hesitate to text me :).  ​​​​​​I'm just a girl who wants to help everyone  I've been dealing with a lot of things and I've been diagnosed with delusional disorder so I can relate to psychosis ( especially auditory hallucinations ) , and many other things I don't talk about sexual topics         
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YourShouder03
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 .⊹˚₊♡⟡˙⋆A smooth sea has never made a skilled sailor .⊹˚₊♡⟡˙⋆ I extend not only my ears, but my heart to yours. -ℳ❤︎ My Availability: * You can message me ANY time 🎀 * Not always available for a Live Chat 🎀 * You'll get a response within 48hrs 🎀 About me: * She/Her 🎀 * Aspiring Psychologist 🎀 * Currently an 7C Intern 🎀 * Verified Listener🎀
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quietlistener2023
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If I am not online just leave a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible  تحياتي أتمنى أن تكون بخير. أنا مستمع مدرب عبر الإنترنت وقد أجريت دورات وحصلت على شهادة في الدعم النفسي وقمت بالتدريب كمعالج. لا تتردد في مناقشة كل ما يزعجك. أنا مؤهل أيضًا في الدراسات الإسلامية ، لذا لا تتردد في مناقشة الموضوعات ذات الصلة
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ReganL
L Master 5 322
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Hello my friends, you are looking at this currently, you are amazing for that 🌟 You are taking the first steps to make you feel better 💕 I know it is scary and your probably have many things going on in your wonderful mind 😶‍🌫️ That is okie my friend, you can share those thoughts with me without any judgment 🚫 We all have a story to tell 📖 and I am more then happy to hear yours 🤝 WishfulWillow6962 (Willow) - Willow you wonderful oldie! I thank you so much for your wonderful time, the four months of dedication and speaking to this teenie will never be forgot, let the memories live on my first! Best of luck on your next adventure  My listener Twin is MollySofia - Thank you for all you have taught me and helping me become the listener I am today I will miss you much.  I would like to thank the oldies who have helped me become the listener I am today! Each one of them who has stepped up to guide me has a very special place and is the reason why I am who I am today. Little note: If you expect a Listener with good spelling I may not be the listener for you  Talking to a random person is scary! Here are some things about me so it feels a little less scary. I am a 16 year old high school student, a sophomore. I go to college during the summer months. I have had many different battles myself, so please never fear that I will judge you for what you are going through, life can be mean, and things all affect us differently. I have some medical conditions, there may be times my response time is a little slower due to this, but you matter to me, and as soon as I can I will respond  I am so glad you are looking at getting in touch with a listener today 🤗 It takes so much strength and courage to reach out for help when you are struggling 💚 I am here for you and to help you 💛 I will not judge you for who you are or what you are feeling. I will listen to what you have and offer you a supportive area.  Green Circle: Means I am ready to chat Yellow Circle: Means I am busy, but you can send me a message and I will get to you when I can!! Red Circle: Means I am offline, but you can still send me a message and I will see it when I come back online!!   Thank you so much for looking at my profile, I hope to hear from you soon! 🌈  My roles here at 7 cups:  Verified listener 🍎 Peer support 📙 Teen Chatroom Star🍌 Mod - Student Support 🍀 Mod-  Positivity corner 🌱 Host Listener Discussion Team 💠 Project Agent ~ Listener Discussion 🌀 Chat Support 🗾 Anonymous Evaluation Team 🍇 Teen Quality Star🌷 Care Team Guide 💖 Door Keeper 🌸
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crypticwhisperss1
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Hello everyone! My name is Xaverie. My pronouns are she/her. It's nice to meet you!  I have decided to join this community to offer emotional support to struggling individuals and make a difference in people's lives. I am deeply passionate about psychology and learning about nonverbal language. My hobbies include writing; reading; singing; watching horror/mystery TV series; and sometimes sketching. My favorite color is wine red (as you can probably tell), and I absolutely love savory food! 🌹✨ So far, I am a Verified Listener! I am working hard to acquire different skills and interact with as many community members as possible. If you are a Member who is interested in texting me for support, then please read the following!:  ♫ I am comfortable with all topics except Domestic Violence, Sexual Health, and Sexual Abuse. Please refer to other listeners if you are encountering any problem related to these topics. We are here for you! 🥰💖 ♫ My texting style is very formal, and I am interested in supporting others by typing them paragraphs. However, I ask every Member at the beginning of our conversation if text walls trigger them. Kindly answer the question truthfully so that I can adjust my texts and make you feel convenient while we are progressing through the conversation. I highly appreciate your collaboration. 💞 ♫ For any Member who is reading this, all my texts will show empathy, validation, and support. You are welcome to discuss any matters with me, so long as you avoid the topics that I don't feel comfortable discussing! Additionally, I sometimes send videos or websites related to your problem so that you can have a wider perspective of it and think of solutions. 😊 ♫ I hope that you don't send me short responses like "ok", "yeah", "sure", "idk", etc. If I ask you any thought-provoking answer and you don't have a definite answer to it, please inform me so that I can ask simpler questions. However, please do not be too brief because I am here to understand your problems and help you. I would appreciate even the slightest elaboration! 😁🌷 A message to anyone reading this:  Life isn't meant to be a linear path. Sometimes, you have to reach the peak of a mountain of success only to find yourself drowning in mistakes once more. That is completely alright, and it does not define your intelligence or worth. You are completely valid, in this community and everywhere you go. You are worthy of support, attention, and a listening ear. You are a very strong individual, and there is nothing that can stop you from proving your power to everyone. I am immensely proud of you because I know that you are trying your best. Keep your head up, and don't lower it for temporary problems! I believe in you. 💗💗 “He who knows no hardships will know no hardihood. He who faces no calamity will need no courage. Mysterious though it is, the characteristics in human nature which we love best grow in a soil with a strong mixture of troubles.”  Harry Emerson 
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snugglesnow
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May 2024 - currently on break for health reasons. Take care everyone, I wish you the very best. 🩶🤍💛✨️ My account and PMs disappear while inactive, but don't worry I have not left cups. ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ⌄ ------------------------- To my members: 💛 I'll miss you, but will be back when I am able to. Take care of yourself, you are so amazing!! Thank you so much for being you :). Be safe, and take care <3<3<3<3 You can find lots of amazing listeners on the Browse Listeners page [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] ------------------------- You're always welcome to lurk in my bio! *hands you hot chocolate and a blanket* 🌨️☕ take a deep breath, and smile! :) I'm sorry if I'm not available when you want to chat, I really appreciate you being here :) *sends hugs if okay* <3 If you're a long term member of mine, even if I'm not available to chat I still care about you so much <3 see you after this break <3 please consider contacting Bubbles2025 [https://www.7cups.com/@Bubbles2025] or Akira [https://www.7cups.com/@Akira2357]2357 [https://www.7cups.com/@Akira2357] :) they are so amazing! <3 And if you want something to read, Lavender has the sweetest ever (very long! :)) bio to lurk in [https://www.7cups.com/@LavenderHere], I def recommend reading :) <3. If you are in crisis, please contact lifeline. You matter and your life is the most important thing 💙 see resources below 💙 ------------------------- Here are some links / resources I have collected, in case they are helpful: All links open in a new tab!  List in progress - always open to suggestions. :) A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z Breathing [https://i0.wp.com/navina.ca/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/stop.gif?ssl=1] Breathing, connected breath [https://connectedbreath.co/] Breathing, headspace [https://www.headspace.com/meditation?origin=navigation] Breathing, pixelthoughts [https://pixelthoughts.co/] Crisis [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] Crisis: list of contacts [https://7cups.com/crisis] Crisis: something to read [https://www.7cups.com/forum/safe7cups/IIntroductionsQuestionAnswersGeneralConversations_36/SuicideReadthisFirst_48094/] Distress tolerance [https://mentalhealthcenterkids.com/blogs/articles/distress-tolerance-skills] DBT Half smile  [https://northmemorial.com/half-smile-benefits-to-reduce-emotional-distress/] Distress tolerance TIPP [https://www.mindfulteen.org/dbt/distress-tolerance/tipp-skills/] Diaphragmatic breathing [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Ep5mKuRmAA] DBT other resources [https://dialecticalbehaviortherapy.com/] Listener resources [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training/active-listening/] Burnout growth path by @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/preventing-burnout-at-7-cups/] Form to request peer support [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2yFIiL6az6UEOc5LNqOOERpM7D0g8F49x0qjbIq7QwhJOBQ/viewform] Forums: listener journey [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/], safety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/safe7cups/] How much cups is too muc [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/SelfCareandFun_2246/7cupsAddiction_95596/?p=3]h [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/SelfCareandFun_2246/7cupsAddiction_95596/?p=3] Self care after chats [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/SelfCareandFun_2246/SelfCareAfteraDifficultChat_1791/] Taking a break forum (visible to: listeners only [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/SelfCareandFun_2246/FarewellTakingaBreakReturningThreadSendYourRegards_4132/] / everyone [https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/CommunitySpace_2539/ListenersFarewellTakingaBreakReturningThreadSendYourRegards_37727/]) Teen listeners  [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=k2VowHPgmMxSy5k!]room Member links Chat with next available listener [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] Browse and filter listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] TCR [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=lWpldX2VmJydlLBuV1fGxg!!]and SR [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=l2RkeHmamJ-dlLBsV4bDlQ!!]group chats Self-help resources 7 cups self-help guides [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training/courses/] (only listeners can access full list, members can access individual topic guides) CCI long [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself]er workbooks [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself] ------------------------- Just a note of thank you to every incredible listener and mentor here, and I appreciate your support so much 🩷🩷. Especially thank you (and lots of love) to my members, you are amazing! *sends hugs*. Look after yourself, see you soon! 💕 -------------------------  Take care everyone, and be safe. You all mean a lot to me. I will be back gradually, but don't hesitate to reach out to other amazing listeners etc. for support 💛
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KodaBear96
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Hello, I'm Takoda. I'm a 27-year-old Trans male. I'm a premed student and peer support counselor for LGBT youth. I struggle with mental illness myself, and I understand it can feel so overwhelming and lonely. I'm here to listen and be a friend. I look forward to talking. Be well!
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