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Head of Content and Product Team Member 
I am unfortunately unable to take member chats at this moment.



I strongly believe in psychology - as a psychology student - I view our Psyches/psychology to be a key for all success in life. I believe that soulfully, we are all butterflies - we suffer from trials and misfortunes, and bit by bit, we are purified by our sufferings, until we are able to soar like a great butterfly. But the greatest thing amongst the chaos of this world, is that we can unite in the face of darkness in order to grasp the light. Conquer your life today, and reach out whenever needed!



🦋I am a verified, trained active listener with experience on several leadership teams here. I believe in the power of listening and motivating one another for success. Apart from my work here, I am a bookworm, poet, and lifelong learner. I enjoy advocating mental health and have leadership experience and training.


🦋 My journey at 7 Cups started as an intern. I graduated my internship here with honors, and put together a project on Social Media Depression (link found at the end of my bio).


🦋 My current roles include being the Programs Coordinator - I oversee the Content Volunteer Team and the Translations Project. I also enjoy being a Peer Supporter, Moderator/Room Supporter, as well as a forum-worm).



🦋 In the past, I have loved being the CML for the Veterans and Military Support Community and the Family and Caregivers Support Community as well. I have worked with great teams including the 35+ and 50+ subcommunities, and have been a discussion writer and feed team member as well.


🦋 I have not been raised or born in Pakistan and am only just recently adjusting to the culture/norms associated with the country. My first and primary language is English and I am not fluent enough in Urdu. Kindly respect that.


🦋If you are interested in learning more about the Community Projects and the Honors project, discussed above, please click the links below. Thank you!



My Content Garden

Social Media Depression


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Day 13: People Who Made My Year Special
7 Cups Online Therapy / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 14 minutes ago
...See more As the year comes to a close, it's natural to look back on the moments that shaped us. While achievements, challenges, and milestones often stand out, it's the people around us who truly leave a lasting impact. Whether they offered a listening ear, a kind word, or simply their presence, these individuals have made the year brighter and more meaningful. Celebrating the Special People in Our Lives Sometimes, it’s the little things - like a friend who sent an encouraging text when you needed it most or a colleague who made workdays more enjoyable, that can transform an ordinary moment into something extraordinary. Other times, it might be a mentor who guided you through a difficult decision or a family member who supported you unconditionally. These connections remind us that life isn’t just about what we do but also about the relationships we build. They’re a source of strength, joy, and growth, teaching us that we’re never truly alone. Practicing Gratitude for These Connections The end of the year is a wonderful opportunity to express gratitude for the people who’ve made a difference in our lives. A simple “thank you” or thoughtful gesture can go a long way in showing your appreciation. Whether it’s writing a heartfelt note, giving them a call, or even sharing a memory with them, acknowledging their impact can strengthen these bonds and make both of you feel valued. Reflect and Celebrate Together Let’s take a moment to celebrate these connections together. Share your stories about the people who’ve made your year special, no matter how big or small their impact was. Let this post be a space for gratitude, love, and recognition for those who’ve touched our lives. These people can be on 7 Cups and/or in other life areas. Reflective Questions * Who are three people who made your year special, and how did they impact your life? * What’s one moment with someone that made you feel deeply grateful this year? * How can you show appreciation to those who’ve supported or inspired you this year? * Reflecting on these relationships, what lessons have you learned about connection, kindness, or gratitude? Feel free to share your thoughts and stories in the comments below. Let’s end the year by celebrating the people who remind us of the beauty in connection and community. This post is part of the 25 Days of Gratitude, Self-Care, and Personal Growth event at 7 Cups! Learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/Day125DaysofGratitudeSelfCareandPersonalGrowthfor2024_341520/]
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Day 12: The "What Went Well" Technique
7 Cups Online Therapy / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 December 14th
...See more As the holiday season approaches, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the year gone by. One simple yet powerful technique that can help us maintain a positive perspective during this time is the "What Went Well" Technique, also called "3 Good Things" What is the "What Went Well" Technique? Founded by Dr. Martin Seligman, the "What Went Well" method is a gratitude exercise designed to boost life satisfaction and reduce depression. By reflecting on and writing down three positive events from your day, this practice encourages you to focus on the positive, cultivating a deeper sense of appreciation for life's small victories. How to Practice the "What Went Well" Technique 1) Choose a Consistent Time: Pick a regular time each day to reflect, whether it’s at the end of your day, during a quiet moment, or before bed. This consistency helps you make it part of your routine. 2) Pause and Reflect: Take a moment to think about your day. Look back and identify three positive things, no matter how big or small. They could be something you accomplished, a nice interaction you had, or even a moment of peace. 3) Write Down Your Reflections: Jot down each of the three positive events in a journal or on a piece of paper. Be specific: describe what happened, where it happened, and what made it meaningful to you. 4) Dig Deeper: After noting the events, take a few more moments to reflect on why these moments were positive and how they made you feel. This adds a deeper layer to your gratitude and helps reinforce the benefits of focusing on the good. Why this Technique Can Help You - Gratitude, Self-Care, and Personal Growth The act of reflecting on the positives is a powerful form of self-care. It nurtures a sense of peace and satisfaction, especially when life feels stressful. Practicing gratitude helps us appreciate the present, even when we feel like there’s so much more to do. Plus, focusing on the positives can have long-term benefits for our emotional well-being, reducing stress and enhancing our ability to handle life's challenges. The "What Went Well" technique is not just about being grateful for the present, but also about recognizing how far we’ve come. Reflecting on your growth over the holidays and the past year can bring clarity and motivation as you move forward. This practice encourages a mindset of progress, helping us feel empowered as we set new goals for the year ahead. Ready to Practice? As you practice the "What Went Well" technique this holiday season, consider these questions to deepen your reflections: * What are three positive things that happened today, no matter how small? * How did these moments make you feel, and why are they important to you? * What positive events in the past year do you feel most grateful for, and how did they contribute to your personal growth? * How can focusing on gratitude this holiday season enhance your self-care routine? I encourage you to take a few minutes each day, especially during the holidays, to reflect on and write down three things that went well. We are here to help you reflect and celebrate your growth!  This post is part of the 25 Days of Gratitude, Self-Care, and Personal Growth event at 7 Cups! Learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/Day125DaysofGratitudeSelfCareandPersonalGrowthfor2024_341520/]
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Call for Testers: AI Bots Review for Mental Health Support
Site Updates / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 November 16th
...See more Hi everyone, We’re looking for 10 listeners and 10 members to take part in an exciting project! You will have the opportunity to test and compare two AI bots - Wysa and Noni - over the course of two weeks. Your insights will help shape a review blog about mental health support with technology. Requirements: * Be ready to use both Wysa and Noni daily for 2 weeks (10 days, with weekends off). * You must test the same topic or concern with both AI bots each time you use them to ensure consistency in the comparison. * Comfortable documenting your experience, including taking screenshots of meaningful interactions. * Able to provide daily feedback and an overall evaluation at the end of the testing journey. * Willing to share honest opinions and suggestions based on your experience. Further details will be shared with selected testers. If you’re interested, please fill out the sign-up form here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScK0hnIYXrOcqfHpc7xPQ3wqKCB1Il30d4Z9HuyUor0n9f_1A/viewform] We will select participants based on creating a balanced group with diverse perspectives.
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Wellness Accountability Huddles: Group Recipes Thread
Group Support / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 October 21st
...See more Hi everyone,  Some of us expressed interest in having a forum thread with our favorite recipes. I'm starting this space to help! Tagging the Wellness Accountability Huddle Crew:  @CyclingThroughLife @FaelwynKatharsis22 @AffyAvo @amazingbean795 @Mellietronx @SociableMap2130 @versatileGlobe26 @NyxyStyx1978 @JulieJean02 @Hotaru419 @easyScarf7950 @liz89 @OhLookItsRay @SmallFrog190 @Clio9876 @goldenWatermelon271 @4Jasmine @helloCoconut4376 @Indigosail654 @SparklingLuna @IchooseLife79 @floatingLeaf4973 @fallenstarss @IsayUncle @freeman @ShiningStar333 @orangish @Beechie @powerfulOak2587
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World Mental Health Day: Prioritizing Workplace Wellbeing
Work & Career / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 October 16th
...See more Hi everyone, The 2024 World Mental Health Day theme is Mental Health at Work: It is time to prioritize mental health in the workplace. Some of our admins and ambassadors have shared helpful tips on how to prioritize workplace wellbeing and I will be sharing them in this thread!  Have a reflection about these tips or want to share your own? Feel welcome to join the discussion by replying to this thread.
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Wellness Accountability Huddles: Group Goals List Thread
Group Support / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 October 25th
...See more Hi everyone, Some of us requested to create a way to check back on each other's goals - this is our group goals thread to mention any notes of the things we are working on for easy referencing. Please note that this is optional but may come in handy for your peers to track your progress!  We recently will be talking about SMART Goals too and have a shorter chat template to work with - feel welcome to post that too if you feel it will help out in the coming weeks. Tagging the Wellness Accountability Huddle Crew:  @Cafedaydreams @CyclingThroughLife @FaelwynKatharsis22 @AffyAvo @amazingbean795 @Mellietronx @SociableMap2130 @versatileGlobe26 @NyxyStyx1978 @JulieJean02 @Hotaru419 @easyScarf7950 @liz89 @OhLookItsRay @SmallFrog190 @Clio9876 @goldenWatermelon271 @4Jasmine @helloCoconut4376 @Indigosail654 @SparklingLuna @IchooseLife79 @floatingLeaf4973 @fallenstarss @IsayUncle @freeman @ShiningStar333 @orangish @Beechie @powerfulOak2587
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Introducing Our Biweekly Newsletter: Empathy Express
Site Updates / by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 October 16th
...See more Hi everyone,  I am thrilled to announce our newsletter called Empathy Express! Launching soon, this newsletter will be sent out every 2 weeks and will feature a variety of content from across the 7 Cups community. Expect helpful activities, inspiring stories, and insightful highlights from our incredible community! We’d love for you to get involved! Feel free to share your ideas, suggestions, and submissions (including artwork or any other content) to make this newsletter truly by the community, for the community. This will be the chance to feature and discover helpful content from our community. To sign-up, please fill in this form [https://forms.gle/FrqX9DwSr1TTvVt58] I look forward to celebrating excellent content with all of you
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