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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."

Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team. 

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Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts. 

I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners. We all are here with you to listen to and support you. 

Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown

Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!


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Birthday Celebration Party Schedule
Positivity & Gratitude / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 1 hour ago
...See more Hello everyone,  I hope everyone is doing well. As you may know, we reintroduced the Community Birthday Project [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/General_2448/AnnouncementCommunityBirthdayProject_342355/] and made changes to bring more fun and wishes for all.  So, get ready to celebrate the birthday of all born in January with me at an unforgettable party filled with fun, laughter, and good times! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 The birthday party will take place in the Positivity Corner group chat  * For Adults: on 01/22/2025 (Wednesday) at noon Eastern time  * For Teens: on 01/21/2025 (Tuesday) at noon Eastern time I can't wait to celebrate with you all. Let's make this birthday party special for all.  You can share your wishes for all whose birthday is in January here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/CupversariesBirthdays_179/JanuaryBirthdayCelebrations_344546/   
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Recap of Reflection Week Group Support Event
Group Support / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more Hello everyone,  Thank you all for participating in the Join Our Group Support Event- Reflection Week [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/GroupSupportCommunityEvents_2295/January2025JoinOurGroupSupportEventReflectionWeek_343820/]. The event was a powerful journey of self-discovery and awareness as we celebrated Reflection Week. I am grateful to everyone who participated in the forum discussions and group discussions. I enjoyed the thoughts, insights, and experiences we all shared. I witnessed a community coming together to explore, learn, and grow. As we wrap up the reflection week, please take a moment to share your experiences and feedback for the event. What did you like, what could have been better?  Click here to submit your feedback for the Reflection Week Event!  [https://forms.gle/KpA2p2APo1iEsF7c7] Thank you again for making Reflection Week such a meaningful and enriching experience. You can check forum discussions here to participate further:  * Day 1: What are you most grateful for about your journey so far? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/General_2448/Day1Whatareyoumostgratefulforaboutyourjourneysofar_343910/] * Day 2: What were the biggest challenges you faced and how did you overcome them? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/General_2448/Day2Whatwerethebiggestchallengesyoufacedandhowdidyouovercomethem_344041/] * Day 3: What are your core values and how do they guide your decisions and actions? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/General_2448/Day3Whatareyourcorevaluesandhowdotheyguideyourdecisionsandactions_344095/] * Day 4: What are your hopes and dreams for the future? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/General_2448/Day4Whatareyourhopesanddreamsforthefuture_344172/] * Day 5: How has this community impacted your journey? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/General_2448/Day5Howhasthiscommunityimpactedyourjourney_344221/]
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Day 5: How has this community impacted your journey?
Positivity & Gratitude / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 Thursday
...See more Welcome to Reflection Week- Day 5 discussion,  I hope you are doing well. This post is part of the  Group Support Event- Reflection Week with 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/GroupSupportCommunityEvents_2295/January2025JoinOurGroupSupportEventReflectionWeek_343820/?post=3738276]. This discussion is intended to explore gratitude and reflect on the positive aspects of our life experiences.  Today's discussion is focused on reflecting on the positive impact 7Cups has had on our journeys and sharing our hopes for its future. Please join me to share your experiences, insights, and aspirations for our community. These impacts may include how 7cups impacted your overall journey here, how you gained new understanding, knowledge, and skills, how you formed new and meaningful connections with fellow members or how 7cups supported you in a challenging time and so on.  Discussion question: How has 7Cups impacted your journey? What are your hopes for the future of our community? Let's join us and share your reflections on growth, resilience, and appreciation. 
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Day 4: What are your hopes and dreams for the future?
Positivity & Gratitude / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Welcome to Reflection Week- Day 4 discussion,  I hope you are doing well. This post is part of the  Group Support Event- Reflection Week with 7 Cups.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/GroupSupportCommunityEvents_2295/January2025JoinOurGroupSupportEventReflectionWeek_343820/?post=3738276]This discussion is intended to explore gratitude and reflect on the positive aspects of our life experiences.  Today''s discussion is focused on exploring our hopes and dreams for the future and discussing the steps that will help to make them a reality. So, let's join to discuss and share your aspirations, big or small.  These hopes and dreams can be related to your personal and professional goals like what kind of career you envision, and your personal growth aspirations (e.g., learning a new skill, traveling the world, improving your health, etc). Please share your thoughts and experiences with us here. Discussion Question: What are your hopes and dreams for the future? What steps are you taking to achieve them? Let's join us and share your reflections on growth, resilience, and appreciation. 
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Day 3: What are your core values and how do they guide your decisions and actions?
Positivity & Gratitude / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 January 9th
...See more Hello everyone,  I hope you are doing well. This post is part of the  Group Support Event- Reflection Week with 7 Cups.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/GroupSupportCommunityEvents_2295/January2025JoinOurGroupSupportEventReflectionWeek_343820/?post=3738276]This discussion is intended to explore gratitude and reflect on the positive aspects of our life experiences.  When we talk about core values, we mean fundamental beliefs or principles that guide an individual's behavior. Core values represent what is important and meaningful and help shape decisions, actions, and character.    Core values help you with the following: * Provide a clear framework for evaluating choices to make decisions. * Serve as a powerful source of motivation and inspiration.  * Build trust and strong relationships with others. * Provide a moral compass, guiding individuals to make ethical choices and avoid actions that may be harmful or unethical.    So, let's share and discuss your core values and how they guide your decisions and actions. Join us and share your reflections on growth, resilience, and appreciation. 
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Day 2: What were the biggest challenges you faced and how did you overcome them?
Positivity & Gratitude / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 January 14th
...See more Hello everyone,  I hope you are doing well. This post is part of the  Group Support Event- Reflection Week with 7 Cups.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/GroupSupportCommunityEvents_2295/January2025JoinOurGroupSupportEventReflectionWeek_343820/?post=3738276]This discussion is intended to explore gratitude and reflect on the positive aspects of our life experiences.  We all experience various challenges and struggles daily. These challenges can be social, personal, professional, or academic to pose a significant obstacle and test our determination and resilience. So this discussion is focused on sharing and discussing our experiences of overcoming challenges and how they shaped us into who we are today.  So, describe the most significant challenge you have encountered. What made it so difficult? How did it impact your life? Let's join us and share your reflections on growth, resilience, and appreciation. 
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Day 1: What are you most grateful for about your journey so far?
Positivity & Gratitude / by ASilentObserver
Last post
 January 7th
...See more Hello everyone,  I hope you are doing well. This post is part of the  Group Support Event- Reflection Week with 7 Cups.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/GroupSupportCommunityEvents_2295/January2025JoinOurGroupSupportEventReflectionWeek_343820/?post=3738276] This discussion is intended to explore gratitude and reflect on the positive aspects of our life experiences.  As I reflect on my life lately, I am super grateful for the wonderful people I have met. The people I met inspired, encouraged, and influenced me in various ways and impacted my life and experiences immensely. Everyone offered me opportunities to learn and grow individually and as a community.  What about you? What are you most grateful for about your journey so far? Here are some pointers that may help you share your reflections.  * Have you overcome any significant challenges? How have these challenges shaped you? * Who are the people you are most grateful for in your life? How have these relationships enriched your journey? * What are some of the most memorable experiences you have had? What lessons did you learn from these experiences? * What opportunities are you grateful for having received? How have these opportunities impacted your life? * What are the most important lessons you have learned along the way? How have these lessons shaped your perspective and your actions? Let's join us and share your reflections on growth, resilience, and appreciation. 
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Wonderful person and friend. They are down to earth. Very helpful.
They made me feel a bit better and they took the time to explain things, so I could better understand. Thanks for your time.
I texted Obs although it was clearly mentioned on his bio that he wouldn't be able to take new member requests and it's all because I was unable to trust anyone else but him. And he didn't let me down. I never expected such humble and kind responses from anyone. I'm literally crying.... May God bless you and keep you safe and happy all the time.
Very kind and understanding, and fun to talk to
really observant and kind : ) obs is a great listener 100% recommend
this listener was emphatic loved chatting with obs would love to chat again.
Really well done on all accounts!
Obs is great
coolest coolest helpful person who knows how to take feedback and make a real difference on 7 cups
Obs has been tremendous support for me , always. I appreciate his presence in cups for responding promptly and doing what he can to be supportive of both listeners and members in 7 cups. Ive known him since around past 6 years and its always a pressure to see him in the rooms, the way he responds to people and his dicussions. It all shows his care and passion.
Really kind and helpful
really good listener!
Obs is always ready to help with questions and is very knowledgeable. It is a pleasure to have Obs here.
Best listener ever!
Helpful and open to understand
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incredible, good at time mangement
A very nice person. They try there best as Group Support Manager here at 7cups.
Very supportive. Very caring. Very understanding. Takes the time to listen to feedback from other Community Leaders. Very Professional. A very wise person.
ASlientObserver is a warm, caring person. They love being in group support. They are a good leader. They try there best to set a good example. They are good group support manager.
Always support and positive Sent information that is important to me to assistance me and also enhance my journey and support my chosen path.
amazinggggggggg
Obs is so patient, understanding, kind which makes them an amazing listener.
Obs is So helpful
We patient explaining answers to my questions.
Obs is such an amazing person, and I appreciate all of the contributions they have made to this wonderful community. Keep up the amazing work, and never change! ❤️❤️
An empathetic mind!
This person is very genuine and caring and honest. It was a shear pleasure interacting with them. I highly recommend them as someone to talk too and you should feel much much better afterwards. Definitely a pillar of this 7 cups community indeed. 10/10 service.
Obs is so nice and very patient. He is one of the best listeners there is, and I would give him a million stars if I could.
A wonderful person who goes the extra mile to make this a platform that is user friendly . They were patient responsive and very helpful.
He understands me. He just did thank you a thousand times
He's just the best
Really helpful and motivational
The best hands down so understanding and caring
He is a very nice person, he is willing to go extra mile just to help. He is deserves a million dollars tbh😂
Very good communicator and answers automatically when gets a chance, nice friendly too..
Obs is always pleasant and enjoyable to chat with, even in minor interactions. :)
A great listener who helped sort my emotions and lended a listening ear to my problems when no one was there to listen to them
He was very attentive, loyal, kind, Supportive and Empathetic Listener. Thanks you so much ASilentObserver 🥰♥️
Very attentive and considerate person, thank you for your help
great listener helpful
Very kind and understanding i loved talking to obs I highly recommend talking to obs if you need a helping hand
Very kind person. Encourages me a lot.
ASilentObserver was very kind and open to hearing my concerns. Also, very quick to respond and seemed forthright.
They helped me a lot just by listening, it was great talking to them.
Good he is very helpful
Hard worker. Amazing person.
thank you. You're wonderful
Hard working person for cups. Appreciate all that he does for us
Great person. Very Kind and very helpful.
Responds quickly and gets to the point.
Great Listener.
Super helpful, thanks so much
Always doing a great job. Very observant! ;)
Good hope we can continue
Great chat. I feel valued as a member.
*huggles* thank you soo much
They are very soothing.
Amazing listener! Thank you for taking the time to listen to my concerns and worries, and give real thought out answers which helped me realize things. It made me feel really listened to 💛
very patient listener
I was lucky to talk to him. He is knowledgeable on many topic and he understood me very well in short time. Gave me nice suggestion when asked. It was worth talking to him. Compassionate.. Empathy and have patient and easy to talk. definitely can be recommend to other. God bless you and you be happy always.
Great listener! Provided very helpful thoughts.
Helped me deal with the problem which was bugging me from a long time
I loved the chat.. it was what you might call refreshing... 😄
OBS is so caring
Really great listener
Very thoughtful in responses, really gives you a sense that they care and genuinely want to help
Really helped to talk things through
very helpful, caring and understanding
Such a warm heart!🤗
Amazing Listener as always :) Makes me feel a lot better after our conversation :)
One of the best listeners I have ever met. Responds and is there whenever I needed him. Makes me feel a lot better!:)
He was very nice and understanding to me, and helped me talk through my anxiety. I had a good time talking with him.
very kind and amazing listener
I am so thankful for the help and useful tips that I get,great advice!
I find the support valuable and appreciate the advice
Really useful communucation,friendly,helpful advice
Thank you.
Great Listener:) empathizes with you and understands. Feel a lot better after our conversation :)
Thank you very much. Thanks for helping with Bipolar awareness / relationships -- very important topic.
I found some great support from @ASilentObserver and a genuine,caring attitude.I much appreciate his help!
An amazing and caring person. They helped me through a really rough time.
amazing person genuinely kind and caring always responsive really helped me in my time of need thank you so much
Very caring and helpful
Silent is awesome, as always. Great listener, always there when I need to talk to someone and provides a compassionate ear to my seemingly minuscule problems.
Awesome!!! Love Obs!
Super understanding and sweet, thank you!
Always help and has insightful inputs
Had a fruitful and enlightening session helped me see things clearer and understand better where I was lagging
great
Understanding, smart, attentive, interactive, caring.
Obs is extremely helpful, understanding, and caring. I felt like I wasn't being judged, so thank you so much for your advice and I'll be coming again when I need more help!
Very helpful and understanding. She will lsten to what ever u have to say and try to help u sort out ur thoughts and help u with what's going on I highly recommend her
Thanks for your time
You're Kind. Thanks
amazing
awesome as always and very helpful
Thank you silentObs. You have been really helpful.
Obs is such a lovely heart to chat with. Always having the nicest words to make a day go better. It's a sweet heart and caring person I every way.
Our conversation was awesome! Thank you @ASilentListener
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